A few months later, husband and wife quarreled over money

Meeting my wife, I think I have found someone to share a long road ahead of me. I memorized the saying: “You can do whatever you want, the rice and cucumber soup is done”, and then the stories about burning incense, buying the first ceremony of the month, the full moon day… For me, that’s more than enough. But life is not so beautiful to me. We live with my parents, not because I am an only son, I simply want to live with my parents. I want to see my parents safe every day. In fact, I knew I was worthless, lazy, playful, or sophistry, but I also knew I wasn’t ragged.

I don’t dare to judge my wife now, I don’t know what layer of society she is in. I was afraid that she would be miserable apart from each other, at that time I was the wrong one, the more wrong I was, the more I owed my husband, the karma of the community. My wife has a normal appearance, she might call it good-looking in society, she often says that. The wife’s stubbornness, stubbornness, and arguments is taciturn for a whole week, a whole month. My parents saved their whole life for my brothers and sisters two pieces of land, my parents had one piece to take care of their old age. Our house is very spacious and comfortable. We just need to work to get rich and not worry about anything anymore.

>> I make good money but my wife always threatens me with divorce

When I got married, my family was in debt because of my foolish brother, and had to sell two plots of land owned by my parents and younger brother to pay the debt. Although not to the point of having to go to the street, starving, and earn money for the day, the amount of debt is relatively large, enough to make people stressed and tired. Since then, my husband and I have had a conflict. I work privately, self-employed, my monthly income is not fixed, sometimes there is little, there are even months when I don’t have money to spend.

Honestly, with my brother’s debt, I can’t help but earn a few bucks of interest. After deducting living expenses, I also have nothing left to give my wife to accumulate, sometimes I just buy gifts, a few outings and meals. The wife is also decent and fair, giving her mother monthly living expenses. If life stops at this limit and picks up momentum to move on, then there is no more story to tell. My wife needs more than that, in short, I need to give money every month to accumulate.

This is a very common thing for every family, I understand that, but it has to be applied to the right situation and specific family. While I am not rich, though more or less I have to help her, then have to pay for living and monthly expenses. This request from my wife really makes me very tired, even though we are not in need. The wife can take care of herself; husband and wife’s work, I never let her pay a dime. Living with parents, it is true that many families cannot get along because of different generations, different thinking, different way of life.

>> He used to want to stay at home to look after the children so that I could earn money

I only have one request to my wife: Before going to work in the morning, try to get up early to plug in the rice cooker, cook food for the family to have more affection. In fact, my mother got up very early, those things almost never reached her. I want my wife to get up early to join in the fun, thinking that is a request that is not too much. Wife can’t and can’t do, then add trifles. Because of that, I had to choose to live alone, spend money to repair and buy a new bird’s nest. My wife and I have difficulty giving birth, and I have not let her pay any money.

I am working to earn money to cover my life, my wife needs money to accumulate and get rich. My wife doesn’t need to know what I do, how, tired or not, as long as I have money in my account every month. After living alone for five months, I have not given money to my wife. Actually, the money in my account is very erratic, sometimes it is little, sometimes there is not a penny. I know my wife has accumulated, the money I have never thought of touching, it is her sweat and effort. I just want to see my wife use those coins to cook me three meals a day, is that regrettable or not? However, there are still controversies around money. The days of constant silence, the stories of benefits, the long nights I had a headache thinking about.

When I live with my parents, my wife gives my mother two million dong every month, which is enough for her to be provided for, like that money is enough for my wife to eat three meals a day without washing the dishes. The wife said the money I gave her was not equal to the amount she gave my mother. She was right but didn’t understand the story, at that time I paid no less than 30 million VND per month. My ability is that, only that, only give you so much. That’s what makes me feel helpless and guilty, not being able to help you be chic with you, rocking with life.

>> My wife cheated when I worked hard to earn money to take care of my family

A few months later, husband and wife quarreled over money and interests. His wife went on a trip for a few days, then returned to her grandmother’s house. I am almost always the one who opens the story, there are explanations, explanations, and pulls, almost always I have to take the initiative. Many nights of thinking, I am afraid that I am wrong without knowing it. Now, my parents don’t accept the daughter-in-law anymore, I’m tired. We cannot mount more. I always think that away from me, my wife will suffer. With the person and character of his wife: People with money they don’t need, just having fun on the street. People who really love they need a fair amount of attention, and then the wife stumbles again.

I don’t choose my parents, don’t choose a wife, don’t choose a sister, what I choose is a family, in which everyone cares for and loves each other, shares passion and suffering, shares sweetness and joy. Family story, telling here I just want some relief. I do not seek sympathy or blame from outsiders. Right and wrong, let’s just leave time to answer the decisions both of them have made. Thank you for reading the article.

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