Confused about giving money to my sister

Brothers and sisters nearly 40 years old still do not have land, have a house, are staying at the house of their great-grandparents. Brother-in-law is eager to work but eats and drinks often, often has no money in his pocket. I have a good education, so my job is convenient. Every month I give my sister and niece some spending money. Last year, you bought land and borrowed 200 million VND from me. I don’t know how you bought the piece, so how much you can lend. It turns out that you bought a land of 220 million VND, now it has increased to 400 million VND. Recently, I asked if you have money, you should pay the debt so that you can take care of the future, you said that you don’t have it, planning to mortgage the book at the bank to pay me. Seeing that, I didn’t ask anymore.

>> Conflict of opinion about living with my sister

Recently, I was transferred by my mother for the land, she seemed afraid that I would take it all, so she did not sign it. I made it clear to my mother that the land of my ancestors was not contested, she could take the whole thing, but she had to take care of all the worship later. She was silent and then agreed to sign. Now that the transfer procedure has been completed, I want to sell a part for about 1.8 billion VND. I use that money to build a house for my mother, give her a part, and how much I have to build a business.

I’m wondering, one is to give her 200 million dong, you borrow to buy land and give her another 100 million dong in cash; The second is to give you 300-400 million dong but still ask you to borrow money to buy the other land. Thanks for everyone’s advice to be reasonable, sincerely thank you.

Flower

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