Do not continue to accompany him for financial reasons

We do not have a consensus on opinion so we would like to hear everyone’s input. He is not a bad person and has bad intentions towards me. Now I am writing this article so that those who are in the same situation as me can know what the outcome will be and find the right choice for themselves. After reading all the comments, I chose a way that I found quite suitable. My boyfriend practically got into a situation where he couldn’t get his job back up easily. After a short time he could handle it, he had another problem. This time I decided to help him with a small amount, thinking he could keep it without having to worry about paying it back. I want you to feel that I’m not really someone who can only receive but not give. He was very appreciative, promised to pay me back twice as much when the economy was better, and appreciated the things I did for him at this time.

After a short time, he needed more money, had to rotate everywhere to continue processing due accounts, he shared with me again. This time of course I can’t help any more. Actually, I’m not rich, I have personal plans, work, can’t spend arbitrarily. In terms of being a lover, I feel it’s too early to put on my shoulders the mission of being a companion and sharing the burden when I have not yet understood many things. He thought that I did not trust him, doubted that he borrowed and did not pay back, did not believe in his ability and work. A man who lacks trust and companionship is unlikely to succeed. We struggled between love and sharing the economy when we weren’t a family. The two did not dare to meet each other’s families because they were afraid that adults would be upset if they did not go further.

>> Both boyfriends borrowed money from me

While feeling disappointed, I said the two are so different, it’s hard to stay together for long. You can’t pay me and pretend I don’t exist. He was silent. After that time, he still texted me with concern, asked me questions and never mentioned it again. I also replied and texted but of course our conversation no longer had any problems related to it. Everything is now very quiet, gentle, gentle like at first, but I understand this love story is gradually ending. I know you’re not a bad person or a cheater. Maybe he just wants to prove that, once he recovers, he will give me back the money, then I will realize I was wrong at this point, will regret not accompanying him at that time.

The messages from him still come regularly but not as sweet as before. I gave up early because it was difficult for both of us to find a common voice, just couldn’t leave him at this difficult time. As you can see, I helped him a little bit, in a more subtle way that still showed sincerity, but it seems I was wrong again. Anyway, it was a worthy lesson for me. Once again, thank you for sharing.

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