Keep yourself a mystery

“Women are as deep as betel nut” – for a long time, women have had a reputation for being shallow and light-hearted, where they are talking about melons and pears, there are no secrets to be kept after five minutes when sisters meet…

Hearing this, many women may be proud. But do not be proud, because all this provides women with a huge advantage: prejudice about the “no secrets” of women. Since then, people believe that in marriage, a woman does not hide anything from her husband and children. That creates a wonderful image of a woman who is sincere and simple.

Image for illustration – SHUTTERSTOCK.

However, to be honest, this prejudice is meant to reassure the other half of humanity. Looking at the basic nature, the female body is more concealed than exposed, that natural court contains many biological secrets. As for the soul, women are also defined as one of the greatest mysteries of nature, making men understand it both wrong and wrong, humanity has to wonder from time to time about what women contain inside. in, about what they can do.

There is no reason why a young woman full of mysteries, when she walks through the door of marriage, becomes a wife, becomes no longer a mystery. Therefore, there is no need to worry too much about whether women should tell all their secrets to their husbands and children. There is always a secret that they keep to themselves, do not intend to tell, or maybe the time is not right.

The secrets of women are difficult to classify, very different. There are secrets to the little girl, but maybe it will cause an earthquake if she reveals them. No one ever told me I was keeping a secret. But what do you think of people who label themselves: I have no secrets?

Secrets are born during the course of life and are part of a person’s life. There are times when I think I’ve said it all, turned my life into a transparent block; but even a crystal clear block refracts light to create hidden corners where it is difficult for the viewer to fully comprehend everything.

In that way, secrecy is a part of each person’s individuality, carried into marriage, becoming the basis of mystery, mutual attraction. Without the secret, surely the charm, the attractiveness of the husband or wife will also decrease to some extent, because people will no longer want to discover each other or even wonder about each other.

Secrets in marriage are not as sinful or dark as people are often prejudiced. When there is something to preserve, to protect, to do for herself, a woman will also have a better sense of personal ego. Those are the real moments. Keeping my secrets is also a way to preserve my soul, my personality, my own mystery. When there is a secret, one is more aware of where one’s weakness is. People know restraint, know limits, control themselves. That is the way to understand yourself, understand people more deeply.

I remember the tattoo of my dorm roommate. The tattoo is very simple, in a private place in my friend’s body, marking the saddest day of his life, the day his young heart was broken for the first time.

Later, your husband may know that tattoo, but I believe your husband does not know its meaning. That secret is kept only for you. I also once foolishly told about an unforgettable feeling that happened once in my life, only to find that I could not share it with people, but also made them burdened by that story.

Photo for illustration purposes only – MinDandi

A secret is a secret, not because it is trivial or important, but only because it means something to you personally. Women love or blindly, think that sharing to the end, sharing everything is loving wholeheartedly. But then one day, people realize what they have poured their hearts into to tell them all, in fact, they don’t consider it important, nor do they understand much more about themselves. .

Well, everyone has private things that can’t be shared. The right to privacy. Come to think of it, privacy and honesty have a rather delicate relationship with each other. If we can’t keep our privacy, there are times when we won’t be able to keep our honesty. Keeping one thing in my own realm, I just don’t talk about it; but if we show everything like it is in a glass cabinet, maybe we have to lie about something.

There is a very feminine sulking verse by Ly Lan: “I am not a thing that is stored / Unscrewed and turned upside down / Just exposed the so-called heart / Truth”.

Therefore, woman, if you want to keep someone’s eyes and heart from leaving you, keep yourself a mystery. Sharing to the end is difficult, so you don’t have to try so hard!

According to phuuonline.com.vn