Should I choose the person I love or the person who is suitable for me to marry?

Love is emotional harmony but marriage is the result of a long journey. Some people give me crazy love but they are not in the choice to marry. But there are people who do not bring warm emotions but give a warm and harmonious feeling in life to decide to get married. So should I choose the person I love or choose the person who is suitable for me? Listen to the response from two beautiful guests Duong Hoang (DuongFynn) and Quynh Luong sharing about this seemingly simple but rather painful topic in episode 3. Naked Love (Tran Tinh) season 2.

What’s the difference between someone you love and someone you love?

“I want to have an educated life partner, people often have a saying “where the wind meets the clouds”, I’m not something too big but I’m at this level, I also want my lover to be there. about that or near.” – That is shared by Duong Hoang (DuongFynn) – the lover of rapper LowG, both are currently a couple loved by many young people because of their extremely sweet and admirable love on social networks.

Come to Naked Love (Tran Tinh) season 2this young girl gives the criteria of people to love and people to marry that are quite interesting, positive but extremely realistic between today’s couples when falling in love and entering each other’s lives.

With the criteria of people to marry, she TikToker I just want a person with good education, thinking and good manners, “worthy” of her because she herself previously had quite good academic records and neither job nor income. medium form.

DuongFynn gives the criteria of people to love and people to marry that are quite interesting, positive but extremely realistic.

The second guest is “single mom” Quynh Luong was once broken in marriage, so she gave many super standard criteria about who to love and who to marry.

She represents the thoughts and role model of independent, strong and opinionated young women in love and marriage, shown through extremely sharp arguments that make Hoang Duong (DuongFynn) and host Quy Somsen also must agree.

Quynh Luong professed love: “Actually love is like an iceberg, I can only see the surface above. Love will blind you, but marriage will make you see.” Not only that, this beautiful girl also affirms that she never chooses a lover who has good looks and looks at material things, but only needs that person to really understand, psychologically, take the initiative to care and take care of her. from the smallest actions.

Contrary to DuongFynn’s positive views, Quynh Luong has extremely sharp statements about love and marriage.

Sympathy, how much sacrifice is enough?

When in love, most couples usually only see the good points of the other at first, but when they enter each other’s lives, many bad qualities will be discovered. In addition, different habits, different interests, and less time together are also the causes of “smashing” no matter how deeply they have feelings for each other.

In this situation, it is rare for anyone to keep calm and come up with a peaceful solution for both. With the above situation, the host of the talk show – Quy Somsen also gave an extremely subtle personal opinion: “Arguing also has its advantages, because it shows that you can freely share your feelings.”. DuongFynn is also eager to make the same point: “Those who are afraid to solve and avoid problems are the ones who are dangerous.”

But when there are so many great differences, do you accept sympathy and sacrifice to keep your relationship lasting? In this case, Quynh Luong frankly shared: “When a woman always sympathizes, understands, then accepts and sacrifices for the man, the man will see that the woman is not worthy of respect.”

Host Quy Somsen also brought a lot of good advice to the two guests and the audience

If both do not have a solid foundation, are not compatible with each other in terms of life views and one of them has to sacrifice himself to change and lose himself, then when it comes to marriage, sooner or later love will pent-up negative emotions that easily lead to “opening”.

So should I choose the person I love or choose the person who is right for me?

Love is not perfect and neither is marriage. To get married together for a lifetime requires great empathy and acceptance in love. Falling in love comes together, getting married is accepting to stay. No matter how many shortcomings your partner has, as long as your empathy is meaningful, let’s keep changing for each other, cultivating a better relationship every day.

As for those who have suffered too much, you must learn to accept letting go. Loving each other is not enough, must be for each other. At that time, you will have to continue the journey to find your happiness. And the hard work is always rewarded. You will definitely find the right person, it’s only a matter of time.

After the confession session with the topic “Should I choose the person I love or choose the person who is suitable for me”, surely in each person’s mind there will be their own choice. But before making this important decision, hope that you can confidently reconcile and balance to have a “happy ending” with the right person.