I was born in a family with 3 brothers, I am the second child. My parents do not have a stable job, they are just assistants working on the construction site, but they do not work for 30 days a month because they have jobs. Some days we run out of materials, some days it rains, we have to take a break, some days we’re busy with household chores.
In general, my family is not very good, it is not easy for our parents to raise 3 of us after finishing high school. Understanding the hardships of my parents, after graduating from high school, I went to work to earn money to support the family.
A few years later, I met him through a meeting with friends. My relationship with him progressed quickly, but his family didn’t like me at all.
His mother criticized my poor family, criticized me for being uneducated. As for him, his parents are teachers, he is the only child in the family, graduated from a prestigious university. So, basically, his mother didn’t let me in his eyes, always advised him to break up with me. Even to shake our feelings, she introduced him to several other girls.
His mother did not like me, she criticized me for being uneducated and poor. (Illustration)
But he firmly refused. If the earth does not accept the heavens, the heavens must bear the earth. In the end, his family reluctantly accepted this marriage. After we got married, we lived separately, so that conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law rarely happened.
In the house, I am the one who keeps the money, taking care of the big and small things in the house, so every time after receiving the salary, he gives me money, keeping only a little for daily expenses. Sometimes we also quarrel, but husband and wife quarrel at the head of the bed, making up at the end of the bed.
Last year, one day he told me, the company cut his salary from 50 million to 25 million due to the impact of Covid-19. When I heard my husband say that, I did not complain, because at that time many companies also cut staff, leaving many people without jobs, including me. When the epidemic subsided, I found a job to do, although the salary was not high, but it was enough to cover daily living expenses.
My husband said that his salary was cut, I did not think about it, but encouraged him. (Illustration)
In the blink of an eye, nearly 2 years have passed, during this time my husband and I have always had a very good relationship, never quarreled. Two weeks ago, my mother-in-law was seriously ill, and her husband wanted me to quit my job to take care of her, partly to ease her rejection of me.
I agreed, immediately resigned and moved to my mother’s house to stay for a while to take care of her. One day, while cleaning out my closet, I happened to see my mother’s passbook. Curious, I opened it up and the balance inside made me really dizzy.
The savings book of the mother-in-law has nearly 700 million VND. Worth mentioning, in the past 2 years, 25 million has been deposited in her mother’s savings book every month, but her pension is only enough for daily expenses, where can I get so much excess money to deposit.
However, when I looked at the deposit date, I suddenly thought of my husband. This is the day my husband gets his salary and gives me money. The deposit date coincided, the amount deposited in the savings book of the mother was also equal to the amount of money her husband said was cut by the company. Could it be that my husband lied to me about being reduced by the company, secretly taking half of my salary and sending it to my mother-in-law?
When I saw the balance in my mother-in-law’s passbook, I was shocked. (Illustration)
Thinking of this, I was extremely angry, so I brought my mother’s savings book to ask my husband for clarification.
– Did you lie to me about the company’s salary cut, and then secretly send that money to your mother?
Seeing my husband nod in acknowledgement, tears welled up in my eyes. Does my husband think I’m stingy and don’t have the heart to send money to take care of my mother?
– Yes, you send money to your mother every month. But what’s wrong with taking the money you make and sending it to your mother? Besides, that’s what mom wants you to do. My mother was afraid of my brother and family members coming to ask for a loan, afraid that I would bring money back home, so I thought of this way. That money is also my mother’s custody for me and my wife.
Listening to my husband’s explanation, I completely broke down, wanted an immediate divorce. Although my family is really poor, my parents and brothers have never asked me to borrow a thousand, why do you think my family is like that?
Moreover, there is no basic trust between husband and wife, can this marriage last for a long time? I don’t know if my decision is correct.
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