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The couple married first, loved later and the marriage made MC Quyen Linh admire

Program Hundred years of love Recently touched by the marriage story “marriage first, love later” of Mr. Nguyen Cong Huyen (57 years old) and Ms. Pham Thi Lanh (55 years old).

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Mr. Nguyen Cong Huyen (57 years old) and Ms. Pham Thi Lanh (55 years old).

Married because of matchmaking, from “just falling in love, not loving” to more than 30 years of hard work together “escape poverty”, the marriage of this couple has always been happy. It is known that the couple has two children together and the youngest daughter is a famous female youtuber.

Recalling the predestined relationship between husband and wife, Mr. Huyen said that his neighbor made a maid: “I think she’s beautiful, so I just like her, but I don’t like her very much!”. Meanwhile, Lanh’s impression of Mr. Huyen is that he is handsome, stylish, but has many girlfriends.

After 1 month of meeting, both were allowed and encouraged by their families to get married. “At that time, I was afraid that he had many girlfriends and then hindered the marriage, so both had to go to the commune committee to make a marriage certificate, so that if anyone ‘disputes’ later, the commune will stand up for me.” Ms. Lanh humorously revealed.

Sharing at the program, Ms. Lanh said that when she returned to be a bride, she was loved and cared for by her husband. But Huyen’s house is crowded, so the female housework is quite extreme. Another “strange country”, at first Ms. Lanh cried a lot. It was not until they were pregnant with their first child that the two moved out separately. “I have many youngest children, but my wife is pregnant, so it’s hard to live together, so sorry about my wife! I am always the one to yield while the husband and wife raise their voices, and when I see my wife crying, I immediately hold back. Before, I was also a hot-tempered person, but when I met my wife, I had to be gentle”, Mr. Huyen confided about his feelings.

But everything is not easy. Worrying about food and money pouring on the shoulders of the young couple, plus the baby is about to be born, the already difficult life becomes even more difficult.

Recalling those miserable days, Ms. Lanh recalled: “My land is a coastal area, surrounded by floodwaters, I could only build the foundation of my house, but in a remote area, life was miserable. I cook wine to raise pigs and take care of a newborn baby. Many times when doing business at a loss of one hundred and several tens of millions, you have to work and pay the debt at the same time. Then my husband went to work in the fields, it was very hard, but he also made a profit, just a little or a lot of words.

Despite such a difficult life, the couple is still very optimistic and loves each other very much. When asked by MC Quyen Linh and Ngoc Lan how to stay happy when doing business at a loss, life is hard, the couple shared: “Life is hard, but my wife and I are not confused. The couple is determined to do business, even if they fail, they will suffer by themselves. It’s okay to be sad, but if you can’t do this, move on to something else. It’s okay to love each other! I often say I love my wife. Now both must love and sympathize with each other. If there is a problem, we must share it with each other, not scold, that will lose affection. I don’t want to make my wife sad!”

Following her husband’s words, Ms. Lanh also confided: “My wife and I have something difficult, we should share, not argue. I have been with my husband since then without anger, without thinking about leaving home or getting a divorce. My wife and I are afraid of poverty, so we try to do it so that our children are not as miserable as their parents in the future.”

Also at Hundred years of loveMr. Huyen carefully wrote a handwritten letter to his wife – something he has not had the opportunity to do for more than 30 years. With only a brief but emotional “I love you” ending, the U60 couple made MC Quyen Linh and Ngoc Lan whisper forever.

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The couple and their daughter Thuy Trang

At the end of the program, her daughter Thuy Trang, also a famous female YouTuber, appeared and brought an emotional moment. Thuy Trang’s confessions about the love between parents for each other and for the family made the audience admire this family’s happiness:

“I feel very happy when I live in a family full of father, mother, and two brothers who always love each other. Although the parents are old, their love is always like that of a husband and wife. That is what makes me happy and I wish to have a family like that in the future, to have a husband who always loves and understands his wife’s psychology like his father. The parents’ situation is not as rich as many people, but that is the biggest motivation for me to try. Thanks to the love of parents, children know how to love and appreciate their parents’ hard work.”

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