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Women are fully respected for this, not just sacrificing for the family

Most women think that if you sacrifice everything, you will get the same thing for yourself. Sacrifice is the only way to have a perfect married life. But according to psychologist Vera Ha Anh, marriage does not follow this principle. Don’t think that you have to sacrifice a lot to get the love of your other half.

Sometimes it is the sacrifice that can make the other half feel depressed. Instead of blindly sacrificing, women should equip themselves with these things to be respected and loved.

* Understand what others need

Many women put all their thoughts, feelings and efforts into their other half, but sometimes they don’t treat them well. But have you ever asked “does he need sacrifices”. Sometimes what you give people is not necessarily what they need.

Making sacrifices without caring about what they want will gradually make a difference in life. It is still said that “giving is not equal to giving”. If one party keeps giving and the other party considers it normal, it will not create value. When the husband is tired, just a cup of water, a comforting hug is enough. If you lay out a lot of things, it will even mess up his mood, it’s hard for them to focus on what needs to be done. Over time, they also consider you annoying, don’t want to accept these meaningless sacrifices anymore.

* Should try to be financially independent

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Couples who are financially independent are easier to talk to. If unfortunately in your marriage life is not fair, when you are cornered, mistreated, have no money, career or hope in hand…, you will fall into despair.

If you are financially self-sufficient, having an economy will be different. You can make your mood more positive by going shopping, going to the restaurant you want… Or simply, in conversation, arguing with the other person, your voice is also more valuable. When the wife does not have to rely entirely on a man, they will give you a certain respect because both sides are equal.

* Always renew yourself

Even though you are married, you still need to remember to always renew yourself. When you take care of yourself in many aspects such as appearance, intelligence … while helping you to change, always young, beautiful and full of energy. On the other hand, it also helps the opposite person feel comfortable like being blown a fresh energy source. The way you change to be positive is also the great thing that you do for the other person.

Many women think that once they are married, “anything will be done” but are lax in their appearance, refusing to innovate. This can lead to boredom for the opponent. The wise woman should always strive to be better every day.

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