Duong Quynh Phuong (SN 1991, Thai Nguyen) never thought she would fall in love with a foreigner. However, the fate of fate let her meet Mr. Kim GiHwan (SN 1988, Korea). Experiencing many difficulties, sometimes it seemed that they were lost, but in the end, they were together, building a happy small family together.
Phuong and her husband Han.
Never mind that Vietnamese girlfriend is bisexual
Ms. Phuong and Mr. GiHwan met at a cafe. At that time, she invited a friend in the South to drink coffee. However, because her friend was busy with work, she had to sit alone for coffee. At that time, Mr. GiHwan also had a business trip in Vietnam, he stayed at the hotel near the cafe where she was sitting and that night also stopped at the cafe to drink coffee.
“He sat at a table opposite his own, observing for a long time that he was alone, so he boldly came to talk. Fortunately, both you and I can communicate in English.
Because I was sitting alone, I saw that the person was a foreigner, so I politely replied, at that time I didn’t have any sympathy for him, I thought he was just looking for a girl to play. That short conversation lasted about 30 minutes, then I asked for permission to go home.” Phuong shared.
Brothers and sisters met for the first time at a cafe.
Mr. GiHwan’s first impression of Ms. Phuong was that she was so arrogant that he trembled when he sat down to talk, while she was very calm. Moreover, he was impressed because she was tall and thin, with a young face that would later give birth to a beautiful child, so he was determined to pursue her.
When seeing her off, GiHwan asked for her number to make friends on zalo with her and she agreed. After he got home, he texted asking if he could see her again. Although she agreed, she always used her busy schedule to avoid meeting. So the two of them texted via zalo to chat every day. Even when GiHwan returned home, they still texted back and forth. During a Facetime call, she joked to him that “If you come back to Vietnam to meet me, I will accept to be your girlfriend.”
GiHwan thought it was true, after 20 days he returned to Vietnam and she had to accept to be his girlfriend. Like that once a month, he went to Vietnam for a few days to meet her and then flew back to Korea.
GiHwan brother is 3 years older than her sister.
Speaking of this, Phuong said that she is bisexual, but Mr. GiHwan does not care much about it. He never asked her about her past, but he knew what kind of person she was.
Loving brothers and sisters is also subject to many opinions and words of people. It is said that she is greedy for riches, thinking that she is lying on top of him, but in fact her husband is an ordinary person, not rich, her parents-in-law are just rural.
It is known that they have known each other since 2019 and had to love each other for more than 2 years. Despite being in a long distance relationship, they both trust each other, never suspecting or doing anything wrong to each other. During the time when siblings are in a long distance relationship, there are also many problems, sometimes they want to let go because love is too hard and difficult, don’t know when the translation will end while both of them are not young anymore. , it’s not good to last forever.
“Once, I proposed to break up, because I was afraid of not being able to speak on the phone, so I texted, texted a lot, talked about the difficult problem that the two of us were facing, I proposed to break up so that he could break up. Find another happiness. Then I cut off all contact with him, so that he could never find me again. 4 days later I received a video call from another person who is his friend and colleague. He advised me and said GiHwan cried a lot.
Knowing that I have unblocked contacts, a lot of messages, missed calls have been sent. Before I could read it, he called, I opened the camera, and my eyes were swollen and red, making me choke so I couldn’t say a word. I sent a lot of messages to apologize and the two of us healed, and never dared to say goodbye again.” Phuong recounted.
Siblings spent 2 years in a long distance relationship.
Love for 9 months before getting married
Phuong confided that they had been dating for 9 months, then Mr. GiHwan asked the question of marriage. She was also a bit surprised because she thought that she loved each other for fun, but did not think there would be a long-term future. When he suggested marriage, she felt cheated because after that time he asked to go back to her house, visit her parents’ and relatives’ houses.
However, after a while, I found out that his personality is gentle, hard working, does not smoke, does not drink, knows how to care for others… so gradually she also has more feelings.
“During the phone conversations or meeting each other, GiHwan hyung always said “be my wife”. I also listen to Chi Dan’s song Be My Wife a lot. Because I was impressed by the gentle, emotional and caring brother from the smallest things, I agreed.” Phuong laughed.
They just got married last May.
Both siblings planned to get married in April 2020, but because of the pandemic, it had to be postponed. By 2022, when Vietnam reopens international routes, Mr. GiHwan will come to Vietnam to meet her again. He brought his parents over to ask her to marry him. And less than a month to May 15, they officially held a wedding in Vietnam. They plan to hold a wedding ceremony in Korea in September.
It is known that when she loved him, Phuong’s parents were also very worried. Her mother is not happy because she does not want her to marry far away and live in another country. However, seeing that GiHwan was obedient, polite, gentle, and reasonable, her parents gradually loved him more. And GiHwan’s parents also love Phuong very much. He often connects her to talk to his parents and relatives through video. Moreover, her parents-in-law are very kind and gentle, so the first time her parents-in-law went to Vietnam to ask to marry her, there was no distance from them.
For Ms. Phuong, Mr. GiHwan is a very caring person. He often buys miscellaneous things for his wife, buys thermos and masks for his wife during the epidemic season. From the moment he fell in love, he bought her so many lipsticks that he couldn’t use them to give them away. He even bought her underwear so much that he couldn’t wear them all. He often prints photos of both for her to hang in the room. In the room she lives in are all the things he bought, teddy bears, picture frames, key chains, couple rings, skirts, clothes…
“We are both funny people, at home we joke around and help each other with housework. I don’t know how to cook Korean food, so my husband told me to cook Vietnamese food that he can eat, and when he wants to eat Korean food, he will cook or go to a restaurant. Loving my brother since I don’t like learning Korean, I was determined to learn, now I can communicate a lot, ” Phuong said.
In the near future, she will go to Korea to live with her husband.
After getting married, Phuong quit her job at the company to prepare documents to go to Korea to live with her husband. She temporarily went to Korea to take care of her family, after taking care of the children, she would go to work to help her husband.
“Thank you for appearing in my life when I was the loneliest. Thank you for being with me through many difficulties to get us where we are today. I hope our love will remain the same as it was at the beginning.” Phuong messaged.
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