Today, many hospitals allow the family of the pregnant woman to join the delivery room and many mothers choose their husband as their companion during labor. However, many husbands not only cannot comfort and reassure their wives in that important moment, on the contrary, they also make the mother “increase” or put more pressure. The mother’s story below on this topic is currently attracting a lot of attention.
The mother who posted her confession on Reddit said that she was 32 years old and her 34-year-old husband had just welcomed their first child a few days ago.
New-born mother is angry because of her husband’s thoughtless behavior. (Illustration)
She recounted the incident: “We were in the delivery room together, everything went very well at first. Whenever I was in pain, he was always there to encourage and take care of me. The nurse then asked us a few questions about the baby to distract me from focusing too much on the pain.
She said I must be happy because finally the tiring pregnancy days are over. Hearing that, my husband said: “I am also tired, she is very difficult”. The nurse tried to change the subject, but I couldn’t let it go. I asked my husband what he meant and he said he was glad my hormonal changes were over and I would be back to being as comfortable as I was.
Hearing that, I was really angry and asked my husband out of the delivery room. My husband said his baby was born so he wasn’t going anywhere. When I finally had to scream and run away, he got mad, called me crazy, and left. After that, when his daughter was born, he did not return. I didn’t come in to see you until late at night.”
Most of the comments below are on the side of the new mother, saying that the husband was lacking in sophistication and said a sentence that easily caused emotional rifts at the right time.
One said: “Pregnant It’s really hard so any man who can’t give his wife respect deserves it.”.
“Everyone knows that it’s not easy to please a pregnant woman, but that statement is not appropriate when both are in the delivery room and are about to have a baby.” another commented.
Netizens split into two camps after reading this mother’s confession. (Illustration)
However, there are also opinions that this mother is exaggerating the problem and that the husband did not intentionally hurt her. It was not advisable for her to kick him out of the delivery room because, like women, witnessing the birth of a child is also an important event in a man’s life.
Currently, the story is still attracting a lot of attention and causing controversy. So who should not go with the pregnant woman to the delivery room to avoid such a situation?
1. Grumpy personality, can’t control his emotions
Whether mother or husband, if either party has a grumpy personality and cannot control their emotions, they should not go to the delivery room with the pregnant woman. After all, giving birth is a very long process, the pain of childbirth can make the mother unable to control herself, have aggressive behaviors, and harsh words. If the companion also cannot control his emotions, it is easy for the two parties to quarrel, affecting the birth.
2. Lack of sophistication, not paying attention to the mother’s feelings
If a member with such mentality is allowed to join the delivery room, that person will not only not reduce the burden on the mother, but also increase the psychological pressure on the mother. After all, the purpose of the mother’s family in the delivery room is not for her to observe how the baby is born, but to care for and comfort the mother’s feelings. Therefore, if the companion only pays attention to the child, it will cause a certain psychological shock to the mother, and at the same time greatly affect the birth process.
3. Fear of blood
There will be a lot of blood in the birthing process, so those who are afraid of blood should not go with the pregnant woman to the delivery room. If he persisted in going in, he would easily faint. At this time, the doctor has to both take care of the mother’s family and deliver the baby, which can increase the difficulty of birth.
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