Seeing the man who was brought home by his mother-in-law to debut for remarriage

I am 32 years old this year, my husband is 33 years old, we have 2 children: 1 girl, 1 boy. We’ve been married for 6 years, we’ve had almost everything we ever dreamed of getting married, a happy family, a good job, and a good income. My husband is a man not only me, but many friends and colleagues appreciate him as exemplary, always caring, loving his wife and children…

I live at my husband’s house, unfortunately my father-in-law passed away when my husband was still in high school. Currently, only my mother-in-law remains. My mother-in-law is a gentle, sincere person, at the age of 55, my mother-in-law looks young and healthy. My mother-in-law works hard to exercise, participates in elderly clubs, has many cultural, fitness, and tourism activities.

Seeing my mother-in-law like that, my wife and I were also very happy because our father-in-law has passed away, now only our mother-in-law is the one to whom we can entrust our filial piety and warm family life with 3 generations. My mother-in-law also loves her children and grandchildren very much, loves me very much, considers me as her own child, so she has never been angry or scolded me. On the contrary, often encouraged and cared for me when I was sick.

My mother-in-law is more and more optimistic and happy. I also heard that my mother-in-law is in love with someone 2 years older than my mother-in-law, has been divorced for a long time, the children have gone to work far away… I don’t really care, because of the mother-in-law’s love story, I don’t know. What to learn, and who to love is my mother-in-law’s choice.

A week ago, my mother-in-law suddenly brought her lover home, introduced her to her children and talked about her upcoming plan to get married. If the children don’t mind, I will move back to live with my family, otherwise my mother-in-law will stay between the two houses. I tried to stay calm when I realized that the person my mother-in-law was about to marry was the same person I felt despised and hated before.

Before, when I was still unmarried, I worked at the same company as that person for a while. He was in the same group as me and was the leader, seeing that I was young, pretending to guide and instruct, but actually to intentionally touch me. He had divorced his wife, so he used that as an excuse to flirt, even “solicited” to go to bed with me, promising to give me many valuable gifts and money.

I felt scared, I told him directly many times, but I was still stalked and solicited. Listening to the sisters in the same company, there were some young people who were solicited or even deceived by him. Reluctantly, I had to quit my job at the company, change my phone number and apply for another job.

Now that I see that person again as my mother-in-law’s second husband, my feeling when I see him is terrifying, trying to stay calm in the face of him. My mother-in-law now really wants that person to move in with us, this makes me confused and very unwilling.

Faced with a dilemma, I don’t know what to do. Should I explain everything in the past to my husband and mother-in-law? If my mother-in-law decided to bring that scary man into the house, should I force him to go out and live alone?

(Phanha@…)