I fell in love and asked to die with my girlfriend

A year ago, Phong – my son shared a story about liking a classmate. My wife and I are not surprised, because we think it’s due to… genes. My husband’s family “three generations” all fell in love early.

However, we still monitor the child’s love path to make sure he is okay and his studies are not affected. Knowing that Lan – my son’s lover is very good at studying, or teaching Phong, makes me and my wife feel more secure.

My husband’s family has three generations… fell in love early, so we weren’t surprised when Phong said he had a lover at the age of 15

Two weeks ago, I suddenly heard a friend who is a coffee shop owner warning: “You should pay more attention to Phong, lest he ruin his life”.

The friend said that that day Phong entered his cafe with a very sad face. Moments later, two more male friends arrived. “At first, when I saw the children pulling alcohol from their bags, I didn’t intend to let them drink here. But come to think of it, if I do that, I might make the kids go away and maybe something bad will happen, so I ignore it. Thanks to that, it’s easy for me to observe,” said the friend.

Talking with friends, Phong confided that he was “stoned”, sometimes crying with his face in his hands. Half an hour later, a little girl came to the shop and sat next to Phong, her face was very… cold. It was about 20 o’clock. Seemingly knowing, my two drinking friends left, giving space to the young couple.

“Having a girlfriend sitting there, Phong drank even harder” – my friend confirmed.

Moments later, the young couple moved into a darker, hidden place. My friend continued, he used the excuse to clean up the potted plants, went back and forth, wanted to fall when he saw my son holding the knife to his girlfriend’s neck, demanding… to die together.

“Phong is so aggressive, but she is not afraid, and if the challenge is delicious, do it” – my friend said, her voice still shaking. To relieve the siege, he cleared his throat and asked the two of them to leave, the shop had to close early. However, the children were gone, he followed the car to supervise. Knowing that the two of them only stopped at the intersection and argued for a while and then everyone went home, he was at ease.

I was dumbfounded, shocked, not believing what you said was true. I feel like I don’t know the boy in the story because my Phong is lively, funny, gentle, loves his parents and teachers are very good.

I remember, that night Phong came back and hugged me and said he loved his parents very much and would try to study. I explained the smell of alcohol, my face was red because I went to my friend’s birthday and was forced to drink it.

It took me half a day of despair before I was able to tell my husband the story. Like me, he paled and remained silent. Then, more than ever, he knew that he needed me, needed his family, and we needed to be by his side right now. He put aside his business trip and entered the days with his children.

With the reason that my grandfather’s house needed to repair the kitchen, my husband invited my son to come home and play for a day.

That night, my husband told me: “When he asked about our relationship, I said ‘we broke up’, he pretended to be surprised and said, ‘I’m sorry’. Seeing his children suffering, he comforted and explained that student love is often a fleeting love. He also told his children about his love affairs, each relationship is so deep that it can die when breaking up. But breaking up with this person, he has a chance to meet someone more suitable. Love is like that, but to live together needs compatibility. The journey of love is about finding the right person, the right person. And somewhere, there is always someone more suitable for me out there.”

Husband said, he told his children about the meaning of life, especially many interesting and good things ahead, but only time and maturity can help children experience. In particular, the preciousness of family affection. It is not only a support, ready to listen, to help us solve everything, but also as a “hinge” to help us know and should consider when deciding what…

For my part, I decided to meet Lan. Through prompting her to tell the story of what happened at the bar, I analyzed the silent and defiant episode, that no matter who the opponent is, in any situation, if we feel they can’t control their behavior, words say, adding a “fuel” behavior is very dangerous for me.

Falling in love early, children need the subtlety and ingenuity of their parents

Luckily for us, the children understood the story and absorbed it very well. There is a rule that when talking, my wife and I always try to be gentle, avoid criticizing and judging our children. Borrowing my own story or the story I know as an example, through which analysis will help children not feel guilty and ashamed.

After two weeks, the husband and wife took turns being close, talking diligently, now my son has regained his “fit”, happy and energetic as before.

Children fall in love early, parents… suffering hundreds of times, led by impulsive youth, led by love and hate; requires us to promptly accompany and grasp the child’s physiology to find a solution.

I’m grateful, buddy. Thereby, we understand more and more how important the family – school – society triangle is to protect a child. If at that time, my friend – like many people inherently – didn’t care about… children, maybe the outcome would have been different.

According to www.phunuonline.com.vn