Husband goes to the bank every month, wife is shocked when she learns that she does not have to save money but transfer money to her wife

I thought my husband went to the bank to save money, but it turned out to be to send money to other people.

Thinking about my husband’s divorce makes me feel haunted forever (Artwork)

My husband and I came together with love, although it was only 6 months of love, we got married, but both me and my husband want to live together for life. My marriage also has a few acquaintances, skeptic friends ask why they just fell in love and got married, is it too hasty?

Honestly, I can’t resist the charm of a mature man, 6 years older than me. His job is well-paid, social communication is wide… There’s no shortage of beautiful young girls who also want to get married like that, there’s no reason for me to wonder about who I’ve chosen. My husband and I are also quite harmonious, understanding each other, my husband is very pampering me. I was warmly received by my husband’s family, everyone loved me.

My husband is not an avid gambler, drinker, every time he goes to diplomacy or receives guests, he drinks in moderation. My husband’s job is also very convenient, every month he gives me comfortable spending money. My husband is also generous with family At his wife’s house, every time he goes to his wife’s hometown, he doesn’t forget to buy gifts and give money to my biological parents.

Been married for almost a year now, every month I see my husband regularly going to the bank to deposit money. When I asked him, he said he had excess money and put it in the bank to use for the future. I am very happy, because my husband is a man who knows how to take care of himself, in the future, having children will still be stable economically.

However, during a room cleaning, I did see a stack of bank notes, the sender was my husband, the recipient was a woman. I looked carefully, the amount of the deposit is 5 million dong, the same recipient. I thought that my husband would transfer money to someone to do business, or pay in installments to buy something, but I still don’t understand why if I do business and have debt, my husband will also share it with me.

Bringing some money transfer slips to my sister-in-law’s house to ask questions, I just found out that my husband is married and divorced, and my husband has to perform the child support obligation for his ex-wife every month. I also learned that the reason for the divorce was that the two people were not compatible, often quarreled, even fought. My husband’s ex-wife angrily took the child away, I don’t know, only returned to do divorce proceedings.

I feel surprised and shocked by this news. My husband completely concealed the fact that he had a wife and children. When I found out about this, my husband apologized a lot, even called my biological parents to confess everything, hoping my parents would help me. My husband said that he did not want to reveal this matter because he was afraid that my family and I would object to not marrying a married man.

Thinking about my husband’s divorce makes me feel haunted forever. How can a person who cares about other people like that make his wife take her child away, accept a breakup when the child is young. I felt a lack of trust from my husband and in-laws and blamed myself for rushing to get married without knowing him well.

I feel confused, should I accept the apology and forgive my husband? Or seriously consider whether your marriage should continue even though it has just begun?

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