My mother-in-law wants me to serve the whole family of my sister-in-law

My wife and I have been married for five and a half years and have a baby boy nearly five months old. My mother passed away early, my father alone raised three sisters to go to college, plus elderly and frail grandparents. I am the eldest sister, knowing the difficult situation, I helped my father raise two children to go to university and take care of things at home before getting married. About my husband, your two sisters are married. Before getting married, her husband’s parents did not have a house, so they had to stay at home with thatched roofs. He worked for three years, his parents called home, told him that he was the only son at home, take care of the house, later the house is also his home, so he must be responsible. He spent money to worry, the debt was gradually repaid.

When we got married, our families didn’t have any money, so the two of us gave the gold to our parents to give, and the couple took the rest to pay the debt. Married for less than two years, we spent money to buy everything in the house. Everything would be fine if the husband’s parents didn’t call the whole family to stay. The house has only two rooms, the children are old, so they are very naughty. My family only has a husband who works, has small children, and has to spend all kinds of money, I can’t take care of more than 10 people. When I bought a little less, my mother-in-law was heavy and light.

>> Frustrated when I have to feed my husband’s family

She and her husband have been married for 13 years without saving money to build a house despite having available land. My husband’s parents loved him so much and asked him to come home. She often complains to her parents that she has no money, so we have to take care of the food, water, and electricity bills in our house. Now my wife and I work out separately, but how much money we have put into building a house and shopping, if we go we have nothing in hand. As for staying, I really couldn’t take care of it all, nor could I please both my sister-in-law’s family and her parents-in-law. My husband and I work for a salary, for me money to build a house is an accumulation, which is not easy to get. Please give me some advice to feel better. I can’t stay and I can’t go; The red book is in the name of the husband’s parents, now it’s time to go empty-handed.

Hanh

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