My husband wants to humiliate his wife, to blatantly have sex with other people.
I didn’t expect my move to have the opposite effect. (Illustration)
I am 31 years old, have been married for 5 years. My husband and I have two children together, the eldest is 4 years old and the baby is 1 year old. Before getting married, we also had a period of nearly 2 years of love because we felt that we were compatible. Besides that, family Both sides also actively support because both families are anchored and want to have more children and grandchildren.
My husband is quite handsome, tall, humble, romantic and loving his wife and children. He loves his children very much, pampers and plays with them whenever he has free time. My husband also helps me with the housework, so every time I go, I feel very secure because the father and son at home can take care of each other.
Living together for the past 5 years, I am satisfied with a “term” as a wife. I trust my husband, rarely get jealous of him and so does he. But just a few months ago, my husband suddenly changed dramatically. Wherever I go, whatever I do, it makes my husband uncomfortable and angry. At first, I was glad that my husband loved it, but I realized that his jealousy was really scary.
My husband has a temper and even yells at me often. He did not believe anything about me and was suspicious of many people who were colleagues, friends, even people who were only acquainted with me. My husband constantly slanders that I come home late from work to go with my boyfriend, if I go to the market for a long time, I take advantage of visiting where to call my girlfriend…
I felt stressed, tired of my husband’s control and slander. So many times I think, if there is a man who loves and flirts, I will accept it because it is famous anyway. Besides, my husband has been lying, hinting to many people that his wife “cuckolded” this whole year.
Following my husband’s will forever without changing anything, I began to do the opposite. I dress up, sexy, often go out, oh my, with other men who “listen to” me. I did not commit adultery, but deliberately showed my husband that I was ready to commit adultery if jealous like that.
Then one day, my husband suddenly released a series of evidence accusing me of adultery. Somehow, my husband monitored and stole a phone to have a series of photos of me going to coffee with another man, often having “sweet” messages with other people. My husband made a fuss, he also announced to me that he would reciprocate by having a girlfriend.
I didn’t expect my move to have the opposite effect. I painfully realized, my husband intentionally did that to make his wife make a mistake and then toss out the evidence falsely accusing me of adultery. I am also painful to know that my husband has had an outsider for a long time, he purposely did so to make an excuse to publicize the relationship but his wife could not do anything. If there is a divorce, in everyone’s eyes I am the one who causes the breakdown, not him.
Now I just want a divorce, but if I do so, it will make my children miserable and scandalous. What should I do in front of a treacherous, scheming husband that makes me miserable like now? Give me advice with!
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