Dreaming of having sex with strangers who are not husband and wife

Ms. TL (25 years old, an office worker in Hanoi), said that in the past few months, she sometimes dreams of herself. sex with a man other than her husband.

This makes her always feel guilty, blame herself, constantly tormenting herself. Above all, she also feels insecure about the physiological state of her body.

“My wife and I live a happy life. Therefore, I feel bewildered and concerned about my mental health when I often encounter such dreams‘ she said shyly.

Similarly, HM (23 years old, living in Hanoi), just got married but often dreams about strange men. When she dreamed, M. could not remember clearly the face of the man who did “sex” with her, sometimes she even dreamed about handsome foreign actors.

M. shared that she has a habit of staying up at night watching romantic movies, married life is still in harmony, without quarrels or conflicts.

It is not uncommon for women to dream of having sex with strangers. Photo: Foryourmarriage/Istockphoto.

Doctor Phan Chi Thanh, National Hospital of Obstetrics and Gynecology (Hanoi), said that dreaming about having sex with an unknown person makes women feel bewildered. Women are mainly afraid of losing their feelings for the current person or falling in love with someone else.

Sexual medicine refers to sexual fantasies with strangers as sexual fantasies. This phenomenon is completely normal, can occur in men and women.

“The fantasies sex can be very diverse, in which it is not uncommon for women to dream of having sex with strangers“, said Doctor Thanh.

This expert analyzes that sexual fantasies can be partial imitations of consciousness. Besides, many parts of dreams are in the subconscious mind (where beyond human control).

Therefore, many dreams that are located deep in the subconscious are not related to perception, do not reflect one’s perceived reality.

This is like a person encountering strange images and contexts in dreams, unable to explain where the source came from. Thus, sexual fantasies and actual sexual acts have a clear boundary.

It is quite common to have sex-related dreams. Therefore, when in this situation, women should not blame themselves or discriminate against themselves.

Doctor Thanh advises that you can ask for help from reputable experts if you feel insecure.

On the other hand, instead of letting these dreams affect physical and mental health, each person needs to have positive thoughts and share with others more. Thus, the quality of life and mood are also significantly improved.

Dreaming of sex with strangers is one of the normal physiological mechanisms of the human body, not reflecting loyalty or psychological abnormalities. Therefore, do not judge anyone for these strange dreams.

According to Zing