When I found out that my husband had a boyfriend, I responded with ‘high hands’, causing them to voluntarily cut it off

We have been married for 10 years now, my husband and I have everything: A happy family, an expensive apartment in the central district… The biggest asset of my husband and I is probably our two children. docile, lovely child. I feel very fortunate to be your wife, a husband who loves his wife and children with all his heart, is responsible and complete with both sides of the family.

I strongly believe in my husband, he is a caring person for his wife and children, there will be no way for anyone outside. But life is not like a dream, my husband suddenly… has a girlfriend. I was like a tiger being angered, wanting to roar, wanting to rush forward to tear the person who interfered in my family’s affairs.

But then I reassured myself to be very calm to find out everything. I hired a motorbike taxi driver to wait and follow my husband from the moment he left the house, wherever he went, everyone had to report to me in detail, with photos and videos the better. After only two days, the motorbike taxi driver had accurate results about which hotel my husband and his mistress went to eat, go out, go to…

Determining the object, I did not rush to get angry or jealous, but I looked at my husband, myself and my family to see why this happened. Fighting jealousy, making a big deal, I gain and lose nothing. Think carefully and then act, because a family that has been built for so many years has broken down very quickly.

So I choose to keep my husband, keep the father for my children, if not successful, I have to accept it. I pretended not to know anything, just happy, carefree as usual. Every day, I text and call to show my concern for my husband, I encourage him to work hard and take care of his wife and children.

I also cleverly invited my husband to watch romantic movies, referring to family stories and the consequences of adultery, the suffering of children if their parents divorce… At home, I also “sound” warning. Husbands do not make mistakes, let’s live happily with wife and children, that is the life of a real and mature man.

On weekends, I invite my husband and children to go out and participate in family group activities. So that my husband does not have time to meet and miss his girlfriend anymore. Every day, I “crammed”, suggesting the children ask their father, forcing him to love his mother, love the children the most. I also pay more attention to my husband’s parents, showing my sincere and filial heart to my husband’s family.

The happy and loving images of my family when eating, watching movies, going out, going home… are shared by me on my personal page and with my husband. In just a short time, I saw that my husband had completely changed, he was wholeheartedly devoted to his wife and children, coming home from work, and rarely using the phone as before. I think, after a while of not being cared for and pampered, her husband’s mistress will be angry, both quarrel and then break up.

Last night, my husband told me the truth about having someone outside and asked for my forgiveness, promising not to do it again. At that time, I happily hugged my husband tightly and said: “I don’t care about that anymore, as long as you know your mistake, correct it and never make that mistake again. Our family will be fine. Stay warm and happy, okay?”

To this day, I still have the same feeling of lightheadedness and happiness as if I fell in love for the first time. I did not choose to rush to fight jealousy but chose to keep my husband and succeed. I’m not complacent about being selfless, but I’m satisfied with the choices I make. According to people, is it right for me to act like this or just blindly forgive my husband?

(Ngatpyb@…)

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