Don’t dare to get married just because of physiological weakness, afraid of the couple’s wife

Low self-esteem because he was ‘weak’ at a young age

Sharing on the forum about husband and wife, Ms. Nguyen Linh, a young wife, said that her husband is just over 40 years old, but recently “sex” has deteriorated and declined. The couple slept together but only touched once a month. Every time she teases her husband, he refuses with the excuse of being tired or sleepy.

After Ms. Linh’s sharing, many wives also shared that their husbands are very young and only need to have sex a few times a month.

The case of Mr. Nguyen Quang K. 29 years old, unmarried, went to a men’s hospital to study men’s health because he found himself weak in physiology. K. shared with the doctor, before that he had a girlfriend and had sex many times. However, the intimacy time only lasted 2-3 minutes, and the girlfriend was not satisfied for fear of not being able to have children later. So the two broke up.

Later, having paid some other fun, K. all fell into a state of “haven’t gone to the market yet”, the time to do “sex” was only about a minute and was not strong enough for the 2nd and 3rd times as friends show off.

Two years ago, K. did not dare to love anyone because he felt that he was physiologically weak, so he had low self-esteem. He is afraid that if he falls in love or gets married, the “out-of-phase” or unfulfilled needs will lead to adultery and breakdown.

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Causes of physiological weakness

According to Dr. Ha Ngoc Manh – Head of the Department of Andrology, Vietnam Belgian Hospital of Andrology and Infertility, physiological weakness does not exclude anyone. Every day, Dr. Manh interacts with many very young men, aged 30-40, who have fallen into the group of physiologically weak.

Manh said that erectile dysfunction related to work is increasingly stressful, affecting the sex quality of men, with up to 60-70% of patients coming to the clinic because of erectile dysfunction. .

There are patients who have had erectile dysfunction even though they have not entered the marriage. That makes men even more self-conscious about not thinking about getting married. For married men, having a wife or blame, complaining a lot also makes the husband reduce his desire for sex.

Symptoms of physiological weakness in the early stages are quite faint. Maybe, men previously wanted to have sex, but recently they are sober. When the stage is more severe, the need for sex decreases significantly. After doing that, you no longer feel refreshed, but more tired, want to sleep right away, back pain. In more severe cases, you will find that the boy cannot get an erection or the erection time is short.

When there are basic signs in men, it is necessary to go for an early examination to detect and treat as prescribed by the doctor.

If the cause is stress at work, stress, smoking, taking stimulants, then you need to change your habits. Changing lifestyle in a positive way is the way to save erectile dysfunction – Dr. Manh said.

However, according to Dr. Manh, it is also difficult to change this because of daily work and deadlines that cannot be delayed. At that time, men need to attend stress reduction courses, learn to live with stress. In addition, men need to think positively, the story will be better. If you are always obsessed with being too weak, thinking negatively, it will decrease.

Erectile dysfunction is not treated in time, in the long run, when sex hormones decrease, the size of the penis also shrinks, making men lose confidence, forming a vicious circle.

When suffering from erectile dysfunction, Dr. Manh said that patients should not rush to the pharmacy to buy drugs to improve sexual function but should treat according to the cause. The cause is due to the lifestyle we change, the cause of the disease is to treat the disease to handle the root.

Khanh Chi