My boyfriend thinks I’m indulgent when I wear perfume on sensitive areas

I no longer wanted to hold back because I tried my best but couldn’t, so I had to accept it. But I want to keep my honor because I’m not a loose, promiscuous girl like you think.

September 2020 he wrote an article, two months later I accidentally read and emailed to get acquainted. When I read your introduction, I was so interested that I sent an email the first time, the second time, I did not receive a reply sent the third time. After our first meeting, he didn’t seem to have a very good impression of me. He thinks I’m a pragmatic girl who only talks about economics and money (probably because I work in banking and finance). That night, he texted me to apologize for wasting my time, I agreed to go on a date but met an unsatisfactory person. I was really surprised, never had that thought, but I also found him very polite and interesting, so right after the first meeting, I had special feelings.

Then we had follow-up dates, when I thought we were about to become a couple, he kept quiet. I texted many times after that, sometimes he replied, sometimes he didn’t. I texted and asked directly, he said he didn’t want to continue anymore, he didn’t feel like dating me. I’m sad but not holding back, thinking that when a man has decided to be silent, it shows that he has other concerns. Later, when we talked again, he told me to be quiet because I was not active in dating either. Besides, there are many other sad things in his house, he has no motivation to continue. He thought I didn’t like dating just for fun, so I stopped.

>> Satisfied with pre-marital sex with boyfriend

After nearly a year, in December 2021, I mistakenly sent a message to his chat, when I discovered that it had been withdrawn, then he texted back. Almost a year has passed, but my feelings are still there. We talked more and he suggested a date. I thought about it a lot, afraid that this time it would be unbearable like last time. More than those thoughts, I still have a lot of feelings for him and wish to give each other a chance. I think this re-talk proves that the two of you are predestined.

We talked a lot before deciding to go on a date, talking about why he was silent the last time, why after a year he wanted to come back to me. Both have entered the mature age, so they agree to have a serious love relationship. Last Valentine’s Day, he bought me flowers and brought them home. It was cold, I also told him to go upstairs to play, that day he asked for it a lot but I firmly refused. He left, a little angry. That night, he took a picture of the text messages he sent me rejecting another girl to come to me. He said he liked it but he didn’t respond, he loved me and only me. I texted back, saying I don’t want to read any more such messages. I was a little troubled in my heart but still let it go because I love you.

Then while we talked, he said he wanted to find out, investigate about my previous life to see what kind of person I was. But he didn’t want to do that anymore because it was important in the present and future. At that time, I also told him that I had been in love before, but then broke up because I did not agree with the pre-marital relationship. I’m afraid not having much experience in that won’t suit you.

I also reached the age to get married, both of them agreed to have a serious relationship to get to know each other, so they crossed the line after that. During this first sex I did not feel pain and apparently there was no “pink streak”. I read the press a lot, so this is the first time I use a private perfume, in the past sometimes also used to deodorize. After that, our relationship was still good, the relationship was regular and he wanted to take me home to play when the family had a wedding. I was afraid of going back to my hometown at that time, so there were a lot of people, so I didn’t come back.

>> Premarital sex is completely normal

During the time we got to know each other, I went back to my hometown once. That time when I went back to my hometown, I “came on a date”, when I returned to Hanoi, the cycle ended, the two were close again and he discovered that he had an epidemic. He was very worried about it, I was surprised with the knowledge of gynecology, so I thought it was not serious. We went to the pharmacy to buy medicine, I presented symptoms such as painful urination, frequent urination after the first sex and it was gone after a week. She suspected I was contraband. I said I’ve never had sex with anyone but my boyfriend, she said I asked him about it. I told him what I had heard, and he claimed to be pure. He inquired, saw the medicine she prescribed for gonorrhea, was very worried, but on my side, it was impossible. I believe you, so I also told you to calm down and take your medicine.

After that, we took medicine but it didn’t help, I was fine, I still couldn’t see anything and he still had fluid. When he decided to do an in-depth test for bacteria and discovered that he had a sexually transmitted bacteria, he immediately suspected that I was infecting him. This is the reason for all your doubts about me. He thought I was a promiscuous, unfaithful girl and wanted to break up with me.

He thought it was impossible for me to say that I had no experience in that but knew how to use vaginal perfume the first time I had sex. Then why was it that when I returned to my hometown, the two of us were close, he immediately had a problem, while when I went back to my hometown, it was “on time”, and I was still calm when the pharmacist prescribed medicine for gonorrhea. In the toilet water tank, I put deodorant tablets, so the rinse water will be green and stick to the toilet. He thinks that I have been sick and taken medicine for a long time, so the toilet has such blue plaque. In the last purchase, people prescribed gonorrhea medicine, and the toilet was also green. He summed everything up and doubted, no matter how I explained it, I would definitely not believe it.

>> Obsessed with the fact that his wife lived an airy life before marriage

The bacteria that cause the inflammation come on very quickly, he says, without incubation. If it could be for a reason other than you and me, I suddenly remembered that one night I went to a friend’s house and used your new underwear (you haven’t used it yet) and shared towels. I told him about it, he showed contempt, disgust, as if I had made up a story.

I explained everything, but he didn’t believe it, thinking that there was no such thing as a coincidence. He just looked at things, didn’t listen to what I said, and then believed. An incident happened, doubting whether it would be right or wrong, but he insisted that he was right. Because of this, he wants us to stop, not trusting me anymore. He didn’t want to leave me like I was a girl living a loose, promiscuous life. Please give me the best reviews about this.

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