During that time pregnant, the health of the pregnant mother will directly affect the development and health of the fetus. That’s why doctors always advise pregnant women to take care of their health carefully, giving up bad habits to be good for both themselves and the baby. The mother below also heard the same advice, but unfortunately, she could not control herself and acted to make her husband angry and demanded a divorce.
XiaoJiang (living in Hefei, China) got pregnant not long after getting married. Since discovering the “good news”, she has become a “princess” in the family, always loved and cared for. The husband is very interested in XiaoJiang, so he asked her to take a break from work and stay at home to take care of her pregnancy while he will take care of all economic problems. Not only that, but when he comes home from work, the husband still receives all the housework so that XiaoJiang doesn’t have to do anything.
XiaoJiang’s day is quite idle, there is no work pressure, she just eats and watches TV series, sometimes goes out to meet friends. Every day her mother-in-law would come home on time to help with the cooking and laundry. But in the end, it was this pregnant mother who ruined those happy days.
Despite knowing that smoking is harmful, this pregnant mother still secretly maintains a bad habit. (Illustration)
It all happened on a rare day when XiaoJiang’s husband was able to stay at home. When he saw his wife saying that he had to go down to the apartment yard to receive the delivery, he asked me to help him get it, but she refused. She said that the doctor recommended walking for the body to not be sluggish and easier to give birth. The explanation was very reasonable, so XiaoJiang’s husband had no idea.
However, when his wife went to pick up the goods for the 5th time of the day, he began to feel strange and had doubts. XiaoJiang’s husband surreptitiously followed and was stunned to see his wife hiding in a closed corner under the apartment yard and smoking. She only smoked one cigarette, then walked around to get rid of the smell, then returned to the house.
It is known that XiaoJiang has a habit of smoking since before she became pregnant, but when she found out she was pregnant, she decided to quit smoking. Her husband also encouraged and bought many types of smoking cessation candy to make his wife feel better. Thinking that his wife had given up a bad habit, her husband was very angry when he saw that his wife cheated on the whole family.
However, at that time, he did not make a big deal, but only asked his wife about smoking until the evening. She immediately denied this and said that she had given up smoking a long time ago. When her husband showed her a picture of XiaoJiang puffing up, she bowed her head to admit the mistake. She said that she was too addicted to smoking, so she couldn’t stand it, and every time she went to the doctor, she said that her baby was developing normally, so she subjectively continued this bad habit.
XiaoJiang’s husband announced that after she gave birth, he would immediately divorce.
XiaoJiang cried and apologized, but at this point, XiaoJiang’s husband announced that he wanted a divorce after she gave birth. He cannot accept a wife who disregards the health of her children to satisfy his habits and even deceives people.
According to doctors, smoking is very harmful to everyone’s health. In particular, pregnant women should absolutely not smoke, whether active or passive, because tobacco smoke causes a number of harmful effects to the fetus and pregnant mother as follows:
Unusual fetal development
According to information from the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, cigarettes contain many dangerous chemicals including nicotine, carbon monoxide and tar. These toxic substances will enter the bloodstream of the pregnant mother and be passed on to the fetus. This can cause fetal tissue damage, especially in the embryo and brain. From there, the baby will develop abnormally, increasing the risk of birth defects such as heart defects, heart structure, cleft lip, cleft palate …
Miscarriage and stillbirth
The carbon monoxide found in cigarette smoke can prevent the developing fetus from getting enough oxygen, slowing the baby’s growth and increasing the risk of miscarriage or stillbirth.
Baby placenta
Smoking is one of the causes of some complications related to the placenta. One of those problems is placental abruption – a condition in which the placenta separates from the uterus before childbirth. This is an extremely dangerous complication that causes serious bleeding and threatens the life of both the mother and the fetus if not detected and treated promptly.
Striker together
Smoking is also likely to cause placenta previa. During pregnancy, the placenta normally grows toward the top of the uterus, making it easier for the cervix to open during childbirth. However, placenta previa is located in the lower part of the uterus, covering part or all of the cervix, making the birth process difficult. Not to mention, located in this position, the placenta is also prone to tearing, causing severe bleeding and depriving the fetus of vital nutrients and oxygen.
Low birth weight baby
Smoking can also cause babies to be born with low birth weight. This not only means that the mother will give birth to a child with a low birth weight, but it is also accompanied by health problems such as growth retardation, cerebral palsy, hearing loss, visual impairment, etc.
It is for all of the above reasons that mothers should quit smoking before becoming pregnant. And during pregnancy, you should minimize active and passive smoking to best protect your baby.
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