He and I have known each other since college. But that day we were just poor students, so I had no intention of going any further. I always told him, later when the two of you are stable, have a good job, have food to eat, then think about the future. He also agreed and did not stop trying.
The day I graduated from college, I was fortunate enough to be accepted into a large corporation because of my appearance, expertise, and good qualifications. At first it was just an apprenticeship. Using my speaking ability, I quickly won the hearts of people and received great support. For more than half a year, I have progressed in my career, been assigned an important responsibility by my superiors, and loved by my colleagues. With both expertise and support from everyone, I was quickly promoted and increased in salary.
I again told him to go out to do business but he did not like to trade, saying that business must be connoisseur and he was not. (Illustration)
At that time, he was still just an ordinary employee, sometimes his job was okay. Many times he complains that he is bored because the company does not have good treatment, I also encourage him to try. But every time I see him, I only hear him whining and complaining about being tired. I found him to be a somewhat incompetent man, with no will to advance, and found it difficult to be discouraged.
I said I would ask my friends to help me, and ask for a better job. True to his wish, he was transferred to a new company, with more opportunities to develop himself. But when the boss told him to go on a business trip, meet and exchange experiences, he was shy and didn’t want to go. He constantly finds excuses to deny responsibility, making me feel that it is really difficult for him to become famous in a certain company.
I again told him to go out to do business but he did not like to trade, saying that business must be connoisseur and he was not. So for many years, he accepted to be an ordinary employee, his income was only enough to eat and drink, he had no money to spend. No matter how I encouraged him, he just nodded and went back to it.
That time he told me to go to his house to play, also by the way to introduce his family. Actually, in my heart, I didn’t think about getting married when I saw that he was still fluffy, but I thought to myself, it’s okay to go home once. I prepared many gifts to bring home for your parents.
That meal, I also participated in cooking with my aunt. While we were chatting happily while eating and drinking, his mother asked about my salary. I didn’t mean to brag at first, but you kept asking so I said I got 50 million a month. While “mouthing”, I continued to talk about my company, which is a large corporation with good benefits. I also said that I will try to bring him there to work with me to create good opportunities for him and help him strive.
Seeing me talk so much, his mother’s face changed color. Uncle started clearing my voice. Uncle gave a moral lesson that I was a woman, but it was not good to criticize my man in front of so many people. I brag about my high salary, flatter myself working in a large corporation while my husband only works in a small company, normal salary is unacceptable. You said I despise your son. No matter how talented I am, I still have to show weakness to my lover.
Can a man without such a will to become a good husband for me to rely on?
Uncle said, if you love each other but still brag like that, later when you become a husband, your son is incompetent, I will put my head on my neck and despise my husband. I was really surprised to hear what my uncle said. I have never had such a thought. The fact that I tell the story is also to want you to understand, I am devoted to your son, always ready to help him advance in his career. But you don’t understand what I mean.
Before leaving, I heard him tell his son, but deliberately let me hear that he did not accept a daughter-in-law like me. I am a person who does not know how to keep an image for her husband, so your son will suffer if you marry me.
In fact, there are people “in the blanket to know that the blanket has lice”, I just think my son is good and talented, but have I ever understood, if he was really good, he would not have let me suffer like that. I myself wholeheartedly for my lover, take care of him, help him have a better job, but he refuses to strive. I also have no choice but to break up if you don’t accept me. Really, for a long time, I was tired of hearing him complain, complain, and be afraid of suffering. Can a man without such a will to become a good husband for me to rely on?
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