For other people, getting married is to share the burden with each other, even thanks to the wife and the wife’s family. However, for me, the past 3 years of being married are just a burden and fatigue.
My father-in-law passed away a long time ago, and only my wife and mother depend on each other. Mother widowed orphan, difficult family, I married her without any help from the wife’s family. At her husband’s house, she also has no money to save.
After getting married, the wife is pregnant. Due to poor health, she has been staying at home ever since. As for me, I started the time to work and take care of my wife. I have to raise a child, of course, but it’s not fair for a healthy adult wife to have to take care of her as well. In other people’s families, the husband and wife work together to make a lot of money, while in my family everything weighs on my shoulders alone.
As for me, I started the time to work and take care of my wife. (Illustration)
Until recently, my son was 2 years old, after weaning, his wife sent him to young and then applied for a job to earn money. Who would have thought that she had not yet found a job when she had an accident and had to lie on a hospital bed for several months. I couldn’t take care of the children, my wife struggled to take care of herself, I had to send them back to my grandmother to look after them.
My wife told me to temporarily hire someone to help with housework and take care of the children so that the children could be close to my parents, but I regretted the money, so I refused. I went to work alone, she didn’t make money, so she thought 6, 7 million people to hire a month was a little, I was so angry that she scolded my wife for a match, then she silently accepted.
The child was sent to the house of an unfamiliar grandmother, so she often cried and cried, and every day my mother called to complain. I work all day and come home to find my wife lying on the bed, I can’t cook rice and water, the house is not cleaned, but I feel so bored. 3 years of being married, I’m really tired and pressured.
After finishing work yesterday, I went out to drink with some friends, drank beer and listened to my friends tell stories about my wife and children, but felt very sorry for myself. As much as their wives are “wealthy”, my wife “clings on” as much. When I got home, even though I wasn’t hungry, I looked at the cold kitchen with no rice, and I was extremely frustrated.
As soon as I heard my wife in the room calling out to ask for a glass of water, I rushed to scold her and slap her to vent:
“Can’t you see that I’m exhausted from working all day? Got a glass of water but can’t get it? I can’t take care of the children, the housework can’t be done, I can’t earn money at work, isn’t it enough for me to raise a wife without a wife for the past 3 years? How long do you want to torture me?”
My wife was shocked and then argued: “Is that what I want? I stay at home and don’t earn money just because I give birth and take care of my family, if you don’t recognize my sacrifice, I’ll stop complaining!”
I shouted: “I don’t need you to sacrifice anything. Now I just want her to disappear so that I can be free and free. If you feel resentful, get out of this house!”
My wife sat up, her legs still limp. She did not say no and quietly packed up both mother and daughter’s belongings. When finished, his wife suddenly lit an incense stick in front of her mother’s altar. My mother-in-law passed away half a year ago. Since she had only one daughter, I generously agreed to let my wife take her incense bowl home to worship.
She did not say no and quietly packed up both mother and daughter’s belongings. (Illustration)
My wife lit incense and chatted with her mother, then reached down to take something down from the altar and put it in her bag. I was curious to see it and was shocked to find out that it was a savings book worth 3 billion VND. Wife explains:
– It was the property my mother left before she died. She’s only been dead for half a year, so I’ve left it untouched. Originally, I planned to ask her permission to use that money to buy an apartment for our whole family after her first death anniversary. But now that is no longer needed and I see that he is not worthy of my sharing, because he is the one who cannot be with me in difficult and bitter times.
I stared blankly at my wife carrying the luggage and leaving, going to my grandmother to pick up the child. The next day, my wife heard that she had found a new place to live, moved back to her mother’s incense bowl and the rest of her belongings. I regretted and regretted it, and asked my wife for forgiveness, but she refused to ignore it. Why didn’t she talk about her mother’s inheritance soon? Now what should I do to get my wife to come back to me?
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