Successful and happy people don’t do these 3 THINGs
People are easily lost on the road of life, not in the dangerous jungle, nor in the wide intersection, but in the sea of people hustling with the flow of life.
Where people gather, there is bound to be physical and mental trampling.
People living in life want to receive respect, they must know how to walk, need to possess certain intellectual capacity.
Life is like a play, sometimes it’s calm, sometimes it’s climax, sometimes it’s fun, and sometimes there’s an unexpected turn of events. Everyone has to play their role well.
Relationships between people must know how to improve their own value and accumulate capital. Smart people will not make the following 3 mistakes, otherwise they will regret their whole life, never reach success, “forever invincible”:
1. Harming others for your own benefit
“If people are not for themselves, the heavens and the earth will destroy them.”
Indeed! Pursuit of interests is human instinct. This is an indisputable fact. However, once infringing upon the interests of others, the so-called “for self-interest” has been corrupted.
People who act must obey the rules, be sincere and ethical. If you throw everything away, even destroy your honor and dignity just for the sake of yourself, then you are considered to have cut off the way back, burying yourself in a deep hole.
We do not pursue the realm of “let go of everything”, but the real winner must have both fame and profit. Not for the sake of fame, but to give up profit, not to give up fame for profit. People who are short-sighted and distrustful will eventually be marginalized in society.
2. frivolous bragging, not looking at anyone
Until we fully understand the sentence: “When trying to show what’s yours to the outside, the people who are willing to follow you can only count on their fingers. When you hide yourself inside, behind you are many eyes watching.
What brings you respect is not the smell of money. What makes you feel glorious, proud is not flattery.
The egotistical person, who doesn’t see anyone, can only live in the paranoia about the world, where he is the best and the most talented. To put it more bluntly, they are frogs that only know how to sit at the bottom of a well.
Each person should have a moderation in mind. Money can be a measure of almost everything in this society, but education and dignity are the factors that help you win people’s hearts.
The great man always hides his strength, retains a sense of mystery that makes everyone curious to learn, passionately unable to escape. Constantly boasting about possessions will attract jealous hearts, labeling themselves pompous and frivolous.
3. Not knowing how to control emotions, erratic behavior
Wise adults must know how to manage their emotions. This is the criterion of maturity, also the premise for you to find happiness.
A person’s words and behavior are all manifestations of the outside mind and personality.
People who make big things must definitely know how to control themselves, live with principles, cultivate the mind to nurture character, and have a calm mind like the surface of a lake without ripples.
Constantly getting angry, expressing anger will give the opponent the impression of a vulgar, immature person, also a stone in the way that makes love and friendship always difficult.
Sitting at the table drinking endlessly, criticizing the service staff; resenting loved ones in marriage, turning them into a place to vent; Compare, calculate, like to revisit old stories with friends… The moment you get angry with others is also the time when you lose your happiness and the human part of your soul.
Appreciate the present, improve yourself. Never lose your mind in speaking and acting. It will be a storm to crush you on the road to the future.
(Source: Zhihu)
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