Our 2-year-old weaned son, my wife started looking for a job to go back to work. I prefer to hire outsiders to help, because I want them to do whatever they want, feel free to order. The wife likes to ask her grandmother to take care of the baby to feel secure. I find it both inconvenient and indebted to her. But my wife insisted on doing so, I had to comply.
My mother-in-law has been taking care of us for a month now. When I talked to my wife, I did not dare to shout, even if I met friends at night, I would not dare to return late, afraid of my mother-in-law’s evaluation and criticism. In addition, no matter how she looked after her children, we did not dare to speak out, even though we were quite dissatisfied at times. I plan to endure for about 3 months and then make some excuse to invite her to my hometown, then hire outsiders to be comfortable.
I prefer to hire outsiders, I want them to follow whatever they want, feel free to order. (Illustration)
Last week, when I came home from work, I saw that his forehead was swollen with a big lump, he was crying because it hurt. I growled and asked my wife if she had taken the child to the doctor, she told the doctor to check it very carefully, the boy had a soft sore, and it took a few days of medication to help. The main reason is that the mother-in-law takes care of the grandchildren negligently.
The more I thought about it, the angrier I got. His wife loves her mother very much, so she doesn’t let her do any housework, just looking after her grandchildren. Daily food of my two grandchildren, my wife prepared from the night before. All day, there was every job that took care of the grandchild, but the mother-in-law couldn’t finish it, so the boy fell like that. So try to ask who can accept it!
When I complained and blamed, my wife brushed it off: “How can active children avoid this? Even me or you take care of children sometimes.”
I think that the wife defended her mother. Both loving my children and being dissatisfied with my mother-in-law, she and I had a heated argument. I gave my wife an ultimatum for half a month to find a way to invite my grandmother to my hometown. I don’t need her to take care of my children anymore, who would dare let her take care of her looking like that!
However, 3 days later, the neighbor’s question surprised me. He asked my mother-in-law how, does the spine affect anything:
“When it rained, she ran to collect clothes and asked me to look at the boy. I just turned away when he ran out into the yard, slipped into a puddle and fell. Fortunately, she rushed to help him, but his mother-in-law was hit on the back and hurt, the boy only got a little bit of pain in the head. She said she would go to the doctor but didn’t know if she had gone, so I asked, and it was my fault in this matter.”
I immediately told my wife, she asked her mother and found out that she had never been to the doctor. The next day my wife took my mother to the hospital and learned that she had a spinal injury, but from that day on, she did not complain to her children. She said it was okay, let it heal for a while, and didn’t want to waste money on her children.
From now on, I will change my behavior towards my mother-in-law, sincerely respecting and taking care of her. (Illustration)
I feel very sorry for my mother-in-law, thinking about her heart makes my eyes teary. Only biological grandparents are willing to sacrifice themselves for their grandchildren like that. The fact that my child was injured on the forehead, surely his mother-in-law also felt sorry for him as much as I loved him.
Last weekend, my wife and mother went out, and I stayed at home to look after the children all day. The food is prepared by my wife, I just have to take care of the children, but there was only one day that I almost couldn’t stand it. My son is a boy, hyperactive, naughty, turning back and forth he has disappeared, I also let him fall. In the afternoon, I cried and couldn’t sleep. Only then did I understand the hardships of mothers and grandmothers.
From now on, I will change my behavior towards my mother-in-law, sincerely respecting and taking care of her. Husbands who have grandmothers to take care of their children should be lucky.
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