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“I’m a terrible mother when I can’t take care of my children”

That is the emotional sharing of a young mother on the journey to find the light for Tran Hoang Gia Anh – a boy born blind with beautiful blue eyes like an angel.

A mother's emotional letter after nearly 5 years of searching for light for her child: Collapsed when the doctor told him the bad news about her child's eyes... - Photo 1.

After seeing sunlight, the 5-year-old’s cornea has problems again, most likely he will again fall into blindness…

Young mother on her knees, begging the online community to save her son

In the past few days, the story of young mother Nguyen Thi Be Thy (27 years old) hugging her son and going everywhere to seek help has once again caused great emotion in the online community.

Although she has beautiful blue eyes like an angel, since she was born, Tran Hoang Gia Anh (nearly 5 years old) has undergone complicated surgeries to be able to see sunlight because of the monster Glocom disease. evil.

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A mother’s letter touched social media when she told about her son’s journey to find light

After being helped by a sponsor, from the age of 1, Gia Anh was sent to Singapore for treatment and corneal transplant. I thought happiness would smile at the small family when Gia Anh saw the sunlight, growing up every day in the arms of her parents. However, 2 years after the outbreak of the Covid-19 epidemic, the child could not return to Singapore for examination, the result of the 5-year-old’s right eye pressure increased, it may have to continue to have surgery to maintain it. get light.

“The doctor told me that I had to be hospitalized for an intensive examination and blood test, but the cost for my son’s continued treatment is more than 200 million dong. Over the past three years, my wife and I have also worked hard and accumulated each dong so that I can continue to receive treatment, but all of a sudden I have to manage such a large amount of money, I don’t know what to do.

A mother's emotional letter after nearly 5 years of searching for light for her child: Collapsed when the doctor told him the bad news about her child's eyes... - Photo 3.

About 3 years ago, a 5-year-old child was able to see everything with his angelic blue eyes

Gia Anh can see the road and see everything around thanks to the love of volunteers and sponsors. Sometimes I think my family owes everyone too much, I want to stop it all… but seeing my child blind, I can’t stand it.” Ms. Thy was emotional.

In the letter sent to the online community, the young mother could not hold back her tears and burst into tears:

“Perhaps you have fallen into a deep sleep by now. Looking at you, my heart is full of intestines, tears are flowing without stopping. I am alone in a foreign land, looking for light for you. And your father is at home, working from one job to another until late at night so that he can earn some money to help me have more money.

From the day I was born until now, I have suffered a lot of physical pain. I wish I could take your place once, I wish I could change my eyes for you so that you can see life to the fullest but that is not possible. I tried a lot, a lot to not fall down, not to be weak, but now please let me cry once.

I know that I am a bad mother when I gave birth to a child, but I have not been able to take care of you for a day when you are a child of the community and society. My mother really collapsed, there was no longer any motivation for me to get up and continue when the doctor told me the bad news about your eyes.

I’m really helpless because now I don’t know what to do. Everyone asks her why she didn’t give birth to a baby, but one mother is still not done, let alone another child…”.

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The 5-year-old child is growing up, I don’t know in the days ahead, will I be eligible for further treatment?

Gia Anh’s half journey

Sitting in a quiet corner in a small motel room, Ms. Thy tried to wipe away the tears rolling down her cheeks while clapping her hands of encouragement. A few steps away, Gia Anh was practicing reading the alphabet and then looked at her mother smiling happily.

Although now, Gia Anh can see everything, gradually getting used to sunlight after the first years of blindness. But: “The doctor said to re-examine my eye pressure, if it’s not okay, I have to have surgery. Not to mention treatment for retinal scars in my eyes. I’m afraid one day Gia Anh will return to the way he was before, he can’t see the way. again…”, Ms. Thy choked.

A mother's emotional letter after nearly 5 years of searching for light for her child: Collapsed when the doctor told him the bad news about her child's eyes... - Photo 5.

A 5-year-old child burst into tears when she heard her mother mention “what if I can’t see the way later”…

From the day her son got sick, the family life of Ms. Thy fell into a vicious circle when the worry of the medical expenses for her son weighed heavily on the couple’s shoulders. Even though they do everything, they deliver goods, work at supermarkets, help with housework, sell goods online, etc., but the money they both earn is only enough to take care of three meals a day and travel expenses for medical care. sick. As for the surgery cost of several hundred million dong in the immediate future, the couple did not know how to manage.

Sitting in her mother’s lap, Gia Anh reached out her hands to find the toys that her child liked, turning back to coax from time to time, calling for dad. During the 3 years of seeing the sunlight, I have developed my own unique habits. Looking at the alphabet mounted in the house, Gia Anh babbled and read each letter one by one.

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Ngoc works in all kinds of jobs to collect money to send his son to get medical treatment

A mother's emotional letter after nearly 5 years of searching for light for her child: Collapsed when the doctor told him the bad news about her child's eyes... - Photo 7.

Although her eyes still can’t see as well as normal children, seeing the sunlight is Gia Anh’s happiness.

To the mother’s question: “If Gia Anh can’t see the way anymore, will you be angry with me?”the child bewildered and then burst into tears: “I can’t stand it, I want to see you”. More than anyone else, Gia Anh understands the pain that she is suffering, if she does not have enough money to continue treatment, perhaps once again, she will have to go blind.

During our conversation, Ms. Thy constantly wiped her tears and tried to be happy to laugh with Gia Anh. Because more than anyone else, she knew that the opportunity to help Gia Anh maintain the light was beyond the family’s ability. It’s the most painful thing for a mother when she can’t do anything for her son even though she’s by her side.

Watching Gia Anh grow up, Ms. Thy became more and more afraid, she did not know how to face if her only son could not see the sunlight…

Nearly 5 years old, Gia Anh went to kindergarten, was taught the first letters of life by her parents, and watched everything around with beautiful colors. But if I miss one day, there is only darkness in front of my eyes, I go back to the starting line when I can’t see anything anymore, do my parents and those who love me have to live…

“I can only bow my head and beg everyone, please help my child have another chance to receive treatment…”, in a choked sob, Ms. Thy hugged Gia Anh. What hope for a 5-year-old child when his journey to find the light is too difficult.

A mother's emotional letter after nearly 5 years of searching for light for her child: Collapsed when the doctor told him the bad news about her child's eyes... - Photo 9.

Hope and pray, miracles will come to Gia Anh so that she can continue to have the opportunity to heal and maintain the light

Through this article, hope that readers near and far can pay attention and help Gia Anh for the opportunity to be cured and maintain the light.

For all donations, please contact the child’s family via phone number Mr. Tran Van Thanh Ngoc: 0901797756, Ms. Be Thy: 0907929602.

Or through Vietcombank bank account number: 1017104337.

Account holder: Pham Thi Be Thy, Vietcombank branch in District 5, HCMC.

Gia Anh is currently living with her family at an inn in alley 45, Nguyen Phuc Chu street (ward 15, Tan Binh district, HCMC).

Sincerely thank!

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