My boyfriend got another guy after he couldn’t get a loan from me

I am 32 years old, in the suburbs of Hanoi. He is from Ha Tinh, went to Hanoi to work in the same company as me. He is two years younger than me, we are both single and have known each other for four years. During that time, I felt that he was a good person, always taking care of me and taking care of me when I was sick. Until one day, he shared that his family had been struggling for the past few years, so he had to raise his younger brother to go to school. I feel sympathy and think that when you love each other, you have to share in suffering, so 90% of the living expenses for the two of us are taken care of, he has difficulties and lacks, I help him.

He has a few small debts, I asked him not to say why, sometimes I had to lend him money to pay the debt. Everything went on until the day he asked me to borrow five million dong for his sister to buy a car to go to school. At that time, my family did not have enough money, could not lend him, his attitude was different. One day I found out that he had a sneaky relationship with a female colleague. Because I love you, I analyze right and wrong and hold on, thinking that give each other a chance. He came back to me a few months ago.

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Then I freaked out when I found out he was in bed with the other girl, I knew it was over. He and his new girlfriend kept touching me all day on purpose, posting many romantic pictures, tagging my friends on social networks to intentionally show me they were happy. When your new friend meets me, she always shows a winning attitude. When we broke up, he said he had told me before that he was not a good person, because I tried to love, now don’t blame me.

Could it be that in four years he hasn’t had any feelings for me? Please give me advice to forget what is not worthy.

Gem

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