Almost divorced because she thought her husband had an affair and brought gold for “the third person”,

From the day I got married, I was fortunate to not have to live as a bride. Because my husband and I both work in the city, after we got married we returned to work here. Although I do not live with my husband’s family, but as a new bride, my wife and I arrange to return to our hometown almost every week. Since having a small child, our time to return to our hometown is longer, sometimes it takes a few months to return home.

Unable to visit my parents, my wife and I often send money to give gifts. My mother-in-law also loves me very much, I also respect her. My father-in-law died early, my mother-in-law alone tried to send my husband to school. Today, I feel very grateful to my mother-in-law.

There have also been many times when I expressed to welcome my mother-in-law to live with my family. But my mother-in-law came to play for a few days and then asked to return because she said she was not suitable for living in the city. Moreover, in the countryside, there are still many relatives and gardens. Unable to convince my mother, my wife and I had to send money home to help her monthly, and when we were free, we arranged the whole family to visit. I treat my mother-in-law with such filial piety, but somehow my husband doesn’t acknowledge it. Because of this, he did something that almost broke my family.

It’s not like recently my husband has been coming home late. There were days when he went to spend the night, and when asked, my husband said he had some work to do at home. He also didn’t give me as much money as before. Seeing my husband’s change, I also have concerns. More shocking was when I discovered that 4 gold trees were the dowry on the wedding day and the accumulated amount of my husband and I in the past time was no longer in the closet.

Bewildered when I lost my property, I asked my husband, and he blamed me for being confused, but how could I lose it at home. Thinking about being stolen, I told my husband to report it to the police. Only now did my husband admit that he was married. He told me that it was important to take it away and return it when it was done. You use that money for business so I don’t need to ask. My husband never hid from me before, so I didn’t believe it even more. Especially recently, when I wanted to go back to my hometown with him, he didn’t let me, and I suspected that he had an affair and brought money for his girlfriend.

I lashed out to blame him. “He betrayed his wife and children and even brought all his money to his daughter. Do you know that it is the sweat of many years of effort to save. What do you have to hide from your wife?” – I shouted. So he sulked and left without saying anything.

The atmosphere in my family became suffocating. My husband keeps looking away from me. I couldn’t stand it, so I made a fuss and demanded a breakup. Only now did he clarify the reason he took away the gold. He said he brought my mother-in-law a job, not a prostitute. Reluctantly, he had to because if he told me as well as his mother-in-law, my mother-in-law would not hold the money.

I still sell credit because my mother-in-law has a salary before. Sometimes she even gives her grandchildren money. She was not in any need to spend such a large amount of money. I still think that my husband is having an affair and asking for a divorce. However, I still want to verify my husband’s words by asking his mother-in-law directly. When I asked about the amount, my mother-in-law cried because she knew it was not the bonus that my husband said. My mother-in-law was sick but she only told my husband and told me to hide it. My husband listened to my mother, so it became like that.

She said she did not want this to cause a disagreement between husband and wife, so she would arrange for a refund for us. This thing that my husband hid made me deeply hurt. I was shocked by what my mother-in-law said. I’m not a petty person that you two are hiding from me. Because of my doubts and anger, I almost lost my family happiness.