Don’t know how to convince your future husband to change his mind?
At the end of this month is my wedding with Doanh. The day before yesterday, future mother-in-law invited me to dinner and said he had something to talk about. I’ve been anxiously waiting for what you want to say?
When everyone finished eating, sat down to drink water, the aunt gave us a red box and said there were 15 gold trees in it. That’s the amount of gold that will give us on our wedding day.
I was very surprised when Doanh’s parents gave so much gold. The boyfriend’s parents are workers, the monthly salary is not much, maybe that gold will accumulate for a lifetime. They want us to go out and buy land to build a house after we get married like other young people.
That very evening, I talked to the groom’s family that he would give us a huge amount of gold for Birth parents to listen. Dad told me I was the only girl, he would give the land right next to the house.
The next day, I showed my boyfriend the big gift my parents would give me and planned to use the gold my mother-in-law gave me to build a house on that land. However, Doanh did not agree, saying that his parents were poor and did not want to take that gold. For parents to protect themselves when they are old, sick, and still have money for treatment.
He told my parents to work as freelancers, without a salary in old age. We cannot take the land from our parents. Just let your grandparents sell it saved money aged care. Now we are young and healthy, can make money and will be able to buy a house without having to rely on our parents.
I disagree, because the couple’s monthly salary is 20 million, each month saves more than 10 million, when will they be able to buy a house of their own. I told him to just take the assets given to him by his parents. When grandparents get old, we will be responsible for taking care of them.
Having said that, Doanh still refused, he still wanted to make money by himself without using his parents’ money. I really don’t know how to convince future husband change mind. But until we have the money to buy a house, it will probably be another decade.
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