This mother’s messages aroused feelings of pity, pity for the fate of the woman.
The mother is afraid that her fate is determined by her husband’s family. (Illustration)
Pregnancy is a hard and very sweet process for the mother. As the baby grows, the pregnant belly expands, it becomes more difficult for the mother to be active. It is often said that “the door of birth is like the door of death”, because no matter how modern medicine is in the 21st century, it is inevitable that there are cases of maternal deaths due to accidents during labor.
There is a story shared by Chinese netizens that makes everyone feel sad. This person recounted that I worked in the obstetrics department and witnessed many cases during childbirth. However, there is a special case below that makes her think a lot.
Accordingly, before giving birth, this woman gave the doctor a small piece of paper, which reads: “If anything bad happens during labor, please save my life first.”
After reading the note, the doctor also understood the mother’s mood and comforted “Don’t worry too much, it’ll be fine.”
When hearing this, many people can’t help but wonder, why are pregnant women so afraid and worried, are family members unreliable? The words the mother wrote on the paper made people so heartbroken.
This person also added that, before giving birth, the mother knew that the mother-in-law outside had told the doctor in advance that: “If something happens, save the child’s life first”. Women think that family members have the right to choose their own lives and children.
However, in reality, the family does not completely have the right to choose in such critical situations. Your doctor will consider making the best choice for you and your baby.
The doctor also said that the situation of “choosing a child, not choosing a mother” often seen on TV series, exaggerates the truth. The reason the other woman worries so much is because in their daily lives, they lack a sense of security and trust in the husband’s family. The bad relationship with the mother-in-law makes the mother so afraid.
Doctors always prioritize protecting the mother first. Depending on the hospital will have different rules, no one has the right to make choices before the labor process ends, including the baby’s father.
The mother had to endure many hardships when giving birth to a new member of the family. It is a great sacrifice, the family needs to pay more attention to the mother, so that it can create a happy family.
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