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To not be too heavy when in love

1. Spend more time with yourself

Everyone wants to be with the person they love as much as possible. However, this can make you overly dependent on your partner emotionally.

It is easy to feel sad and empty when there is no partner, or even lose other relationships because most of the time you just revolve around your love relationship.

Moreover, life is full of surprises, when that person is not around, you still have many other things to take care of.

So try to give yourself some space, keep yourself busy with work, find your own joy by doing things you like, meet and share more with family and friends.

2. Wondering why you love each other so much

Take a moment to ask yourself why you love your partner so much. Maybe your partner is less interested in you, or are you afraid they might cheat and leave you if you don’t love and pamper them? Are you feeling scared and need someone to comfort you?

Whatever it is, questions like these will help you position yourself and your partner toward a more balanced, mature relationship.

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3. Observe the other’s feelings

One-sided love is unhealthy love, especially love between couples. Always remember to observe how your partner feels and treats you. Don’t let your love and sincerity be taken advantage of, friends.

4. Think about the future

Lovers are often very loyal, if love goes away, it will be very difficult for them to open their hearts and give their feelings to someone else.

So ask your partner if they want to build a strong and healthy relationship with you. Are they willing to sacrifice what you are willing to sacrifice for your love?

When you know the answer, you will not have to question or torment yourself. Because if your orientation is different, even if you love, you will not be happy.

5. Don’t lower your self-worth

Don’t let the other person get used to you being there for them all the time, all the time. People often do not appreciate things that are too obvious to them. If you are always ready to do everything for your loved one, when they leave, only someone with a heavy heart like you will suffer and feel tormented.

6. Don’t worship your lover too much

You often consider that person so wonderful, so special, that you are blindly absorbed. In fact, that person is special because of your love.

Your love makes you feel that he is beautiful, shimmering, wonderful, but without your love, he will be just as normal as other people.

Therefore, instead of appearing inferior, weak and incompetent in front of your lover, just treat him as normal as you, there is nothing to raise him up too high and then you drown in her emotions. I, guided by love, am no longer myself.

When you are equal, you will be respected more, and both of you can talk and have fun as friends, not quarrel over nonsense.

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7. Practice not relying on

Most people with big hearts consider their other half everything. Like that, they gradually formed many negative habits and couldn’t live without their lover. If they suddenly lose a familiar support, they will feel precarious and panic.

Being independent and proactive in love will make you mysterious, attractive and interesting. Not to mention, your confidence will make your partner love you even more.

You don’t have to look for ways to cultivate or build feelings at all. Love yourself first. Instead of waiting for a text message to arrive, put on a beautiful outfit and go for a walk with close friends.

8. It’s never too late to fall in love

There is no perfect love. Not only one person loves you, and you will not only love one person forever. Breaking up doesn’t mean love is gone from your life.

Remember, there is always someone waiting to love you and to be loved by you.

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