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’55 years together, my wife and I have never had conflicts because of jealousy’

Artist Bao Quoc and his wife Thu Thuy have known each other since they were very young and got married quite early and have maintained a happy and stable marriage for more than 50 years. They have 4 children, most of whom followed their parents to the US to settle and settle down.

At the age of 73, Bao Quoc is still passionate about acting. He is very happy to organize his own live show during this return to Vietnam to satisfy his passion, as well as celebrate the 60th anniversary of “cry and laugh” with the stage.

Always ‘afraid’ every time I go on stage

– After a long period of not being able to visit the homeland, what are the feelings and plans of artist Bao Quoc in this return?

This time when I return home, I am happy that Vietnam has changed so much. I had time to go to the West, Central to explore. I feel that the people in the rural areas have become better off, and much more civilized. Seeing my hometown growing, I couldn’t be happier.

I have been back to Vietnam for almost a month. I haven’t visited my hometown for almost 3 years, and I’m very excited to see my family again. I did not have any special plans when I returned this time, other than to meet my relatives. However, when I returned home, I also received many invitations. I just joined a reform program called Ancient Moon Musicas well as gameshow Happy memories. These are all programs that I love and feel suitable, so I am willing to participate.

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Meritorious Artist Bao Quoc at the age of 73.

– So does that mean that you didn’t plan to hold a liveshow in Vietnam this time?

This is the idea of ​​Gia Bao (grandson of NS Bao Quoc – pv). He wanted me to have a show he could do after a few years of not being able to perform. There is nothing like organizing a live show so that I can satisfy all the things that I want.

– At the age of 73, is it too much for you to decide to do your own live show?

When I step on the stage, not only me but also all artists, all will forget their fatigue. Perhaps our love of the profession and respect for the audience has helped us have a special health. Every time I appear on stage, I will give everything to the audience, let alone a live show of my own. That’s why I have to try to stay healthy to do my best.

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Bao Quoc with his grandson – actor Gia Bao.

– So how is your health now?

After 3 major surgeries, now my health is much more stable. I’m lucky that I don’t have any more diseases of old age. But to have such health is thanks to the caring and caring wife as well as the dedicated doctors. In particular, I want to thank the above for helping me to still have stable health like now.

– Society is always changing and so is the audience’s way of enjoying art. How worried is NS Bao Quoc about whether the audience will accept him in this appearance?

I think it’s the same every time. Before each performance, I always worry whether I can satisfy the audience and be accepted. Even at the peak of my career, that fear was always present in me. Now that I’m older, that worry has multiplied. However, I believe in the love of the audience for me over the past 60 years. Those who have been and have loved Bao Quoc will always be there, will still accept it more or less. I believe that myself as well as other colleagues performing in this live show will make the audience satisfied.

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Meritorious Artist Bao Quoc: '55 years together, my wife and I have never been in conflict because of jealousy' - 4

Artist Bao Quoc has a full life with his children in the US.

I’m not as rich as rumors say

– During the recent pandemic, what did you do?

At that time, I couldn’t do anything, so I just stayed at home because I couldn’t go out. Although it is difficult, it must be accepted because that is the general situation of the world. Every time I’m bored or lonely, I think about it, so I feel somewhat comforted.

Before each performance, I always worry whether I can satisfy the audience and be accepted. Even at the peak of my career, that fear was always present in me.

Artist Bao Quoc

I am very sad because I miss the stage, I miss the laughter and applause of the audience. In the US, I can only perform on weekends because everyone has to work. Life over there is very busy so people can only spend very little time on entertainment.

– Many people say NS Quoc Bao is very rich, owns a lot of real estate in the US?

My wife and I only have one house, where do we get a lot of land and properties (laughs). I’m also thankful that maybe it’s because of love that people say that. The truth is that my family’s economy is only temporary, enough to eat and clothe.

– Bao Quoc – Duy Phuong was one of the first popular comedy couples in Saigon. How do you feel when your companion has a difficult life in the late afternoon?

Bringing laughter to the audience is not easy, so I love comedians like Duy Phuong very much. I love my fellow comedians with me. Each person has their own thoughts and lives, I cannot advise or force them to do this or that. That’s why I only know how to encourage and support them when they need it.

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Meritorious Artist Bao Quoc: '55 years together, my wife and I have never had a conflict because of jealousy' - 6

Duy Phuong – Bao Quoc used to be a famous “pair of cards” in the comedy village.

Seeing my colleagues at the same time having difficulties, I myself feel very sad, let alone Duy Phuong who has been my co-star for decades. Currently, Duy Phuong and I still keep in touch. Sometimes the two still call to talk and are very happy with each other.

After 55 years, love is stronger

– Referring to the artist Bao Quoc, people will immediately remember his admirable love story of more than 50 years. Is there any special secret for the couple to stick together so passionately?

The secret to my husband and I being happy over the past decades is simply love. We met and fell in love with each other when we were only 15 years old, so we know each other too well. After 55 years together, the love is even stronger. When we first got married, no one believed that the two of us could be together for this long. However, the two have overcome all difficulties to still hold hands.

– If you could use 2 words to describe your love story, what would you say?

That is “great”. I just want to say to my wife that I love her very much. Husband and wife live together for the sake of love, but without love, it also becomes meaningless.

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Meritorious Artist Bao Quoc: '55 years together, my wife and I have never had a conflict because of jealousy' - 8

The male artist and his wife are still as passionate as they were when they first fell in love despite being together for 55 years.

– Surely you and your wife have a lot of romantic things for each other?

During 55 years together, I can’t remember all the romantic things for my wife. However, perhaps the most impressive thing was the time they picked each other up when they were at school. At that time, my wife’s bicycle broke down, I picked it up to go to school and drove it home. Suddenly a rain came, the two of them walked in the rain like a movie. That was the most romantic thing that I still remember vividly.

– When there is a conflict in the family, how do you and your wife resolve it?

Arguing is a must in married life. My wife and I have a special thing that we have never been in conflict because of jealousy during 55 years of living together, only quarreling about careers or raising children. Husband and wife are equal and respect each other, so there is a very quick solution. When my wife gives me an opinion, I will listen and vice versa. Then the two compare with each other to see whose opinion is reasonable, if it is right, we will follow it, and if it is wrong, we will have to apologize.

– It seems that you are the one who is always humble before his wife?

My wife is a quiet person, but only when she is with me does she talk a lot. Everything I do is with the advice of my wife. As a husband, I always actively yield to my wife. Humans never avoid mistakes, when my wife makes mistakes, I always act gently. I am lucky that my wife is also a person who listens very hard to absorb her husband’s ideas.

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Meritorious Artist Bao Quoc: '55 years together, my husband and I have never had a conflict because of jealousy' - 10

Artist Bao Quoc and his wife are attached to each other like Bong in work and life.

– Your grandchildren, Gia Bao and Cindy Lu are not as fortunate as your grandfather when their marriage broke down, did you get advice from them?

Each person has their own thoughts, I cannot force my children and grandchildren to be like me. If your children and grandchildren have love like me, that is a happy thing, but if not, let them be liberated and find their own way.

My wife and I never interfere in the love affairs of our children. However, they still consult me ​​when making decisions about private matters. I just advise them to do what they want, as long as they are happy and have no regrets. The story of husband and wife is unpredictable, both of them must cultivate themselves to build happiness. The search for happiness is a personal right of each person, so I think it is the insiders who will understand the best.

– At the age of 73, what are you most looking forward to right now?

Money or fame, when I was young, I worked hard to earn, so at this age not only me but everyone wants to be healthy and live comfortably and happily. I just hope to have good health so that I can be with my wife and children, family and continue to dedicate myself to the beloved audience.

Tung Nguyen

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