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Can’t find a common voice with boyfriend’s house

I have been in love with him for two years and am thinking of getting married at the age of 24.

My family doesn’t have many conditions, and lives five hours away from Hanoi by car. Boyfriend’s family in Hanoi. When the two families met, they could not have a common voice about my work. I am working in a government agency, low salary, nearly 400 km away from my boyfriend’s house. My family requested that after I get married, I would work overtime for a few months before I could quit this job. Maybe it was partly because I worked hard to get a job for me, so my parents felt sorry and didn’t want me to suffer (because of the rather leisurely nature of the job).

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The groom’s family said that I had to quit my job first before getting married. Unable to find a common voice, the wedding was postponed to this year. The knot is still there, my family is determined not to give up work before marriage. As for his boyfriend and his family, he was better, but he only let me go back to work once or twice after getting married. One more condition is that when I finish work and quit this job, I will start to register for marriage. My boyfriend wants me to leave early and look for another job to settle down. I am very tired, do not know how to solve to harmonize between the two sides. Hope you consulting help.

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