Many women’s bedroom accidents make shivers

When I think about it, I shudder room accident

Ms. HN, 39 years old (living in Cau Giay – Hanoi) is currently a single mother. 5 months ago, Ms. N. had to be hospitalized overnight because of a room accident.

“At that time, I had been divorced from my husband for 2 years and had just had a new boyfriend. The first time I went to bed with my boyfriend was also the first time I had sex again since becoming a single mother. Myself when I just started up. I also felt “dry” but because of my boyfriend’s indulgence, I continued. However, when I started having sex, my boyfriend “worked” hard, causing me to feel a sudden sharp pain inside the vagina and bleeding.” Ms. N. shared.

After entering the Central Obstetrics and Gynecology Hospital, Ms. N. was determined to have torn her vagina. After being sutured by the doctor, her clothes and clothes quickly recovered after only a few days, but the psychological wound has persisted to the present.

“Until now, I still don’t dare to have sex again. Many times I also tried to please my boyfriend, but right at the foreplay, my body tensed up because I thought about that life-remembering accident”, Ms. N. shared. shall.

In the same situation, Ms. HY, 45 years old (Thanh Xuan – Hanoi) is also “haunted” about it because of the accident in bed.

She said that she had a hole in her clothes and had to be hospitalized because her other half was too violent. “After that accident, whenever anyone mentioned about the bed, I shivered and left the conversation,” Ms. Y. confided.

Ms. N. and Ms. Y. are two of many women who were severely affected psychologically after an accident in bed that MSc Phan Chi Thanh – Chief of Office of the Training and Directing Center, The Central Obstetrics and Gynecology Hospital used to advise.

According to this expert, this is a common psychological phenomenon of women. Many patients who come back for follow-up after an accident are always haunted by this issue. Their common feature is stress, anxiety and even unwillingness to have sex.

Contact again later room accident: Things need to notice

After meeting room accidentAccording to Dr. Thanh, in addition to physical trauma, the healing of women’s psychological injuries is a particularly important issue. This helps them get back to their sexual sublimation soon.

To overcome psychological barriers, before returning to activities after the accident, women need to see an obstetrician to ensure good vaginal health. The doctor will also give psychological advice and safe positions so that women can have the confidence to have sex without pain and remove psychological knots.

According to the recommendation of Dr. Thanh, after an accident in the bedroom (eg, tearing the same clothes), women should start having sex again in a position where women can control the depth of the penis.

When women get used to sexual activities again, they gradually switch to other and more diverse positions. Besides, another important issue is that both need to listen and share both the joys as well as the worries and discomforts during sexual activities. This will create empathy and connection so that the other side knows their psychology and both find a suitable method in sex.