‘Cold down the spine’ when living with a husband who is as hot as fire

She always insists that he is a good man. He is a hard worker at work, he always shares the housework with her. He is a father who loves his children very much. He did not mind staying up at night to make milk and change diapers for his children. He also often spends time with his children. He rarely drinks or hangs out with friends. Year-round, month-round, he is always at home with his wife and children. His joy is being next to his wife and children, taking his wife and children for a walk…

He is also emotional and delicate. On holidays, on her birthday, he always has flowers and gifts for her. She appreciates the care he gives her.

What everyone can see is that her family is very happy, she is a lucky person to have such a husband. However, outsiders could not see his hot temper. It was like he turned into a different person. He shouted loudly, cursed, smashed things, even once hit her. I don’t know how many times he apologized and promised not to do it again, but when he got angry, he couldn’t control his emotions.

Therefore, she always felt afraid of her husband. Fear of her husband’s wrinkles, fear of her husband’s scolding, fear of her husband’s anger. Fear was deeply imprinted in her subconscious, making her no longer comfortable sharing and having fun with her husband.

She tries to overcome the mental trauma her husband brings to her, but the damage is increasing day by day. However, he did not stop. As soon as he upsets him, he is ready to let go of the mention of divorce. Every time he gets angry, his “post-anger” is lying in the room, “cold war” with his wife, while his wife works hard to do everything.

Now, she felt too tired. His advantages, no matter how great, did not bring her happiness and joy. Filled with insecurity, fear. She still dreams of love, still wants to live happily with the person she feels safe with, but she no longer wishes it was him.

According to Vietnamese Women