My girlfriend wants me to lie when I introduce my family

You want me to say nice, talented about myself, the monthly salary must be at least 30 million dong for brother-in-law. Then I must be a person with a university degree, obedient, resourceful… She is 24 years old, just finished college. I am 29 years old, finished high school and working as an accountant. My monthly salary is from eight to 15 million dong, but the other income is more than 100 million dong.

I am not obedient because I am still playing, spending money, owed more than 300 million VND but that amount of money does not matter to me. I am also not resourceful, talented, poor in communication, from a purely farming family. My father asked me how I plan to answer honestly, that the monthly salary is only 15 million dong, I don’t want to talk about other income because maybe you don’t believe it, thinking I’m lying. My girlfriend knows that income of mine. I am very worried because both have identified Cohabitation but I’m still afraid that dad might forbid this love. How do I do this?

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