The spa owner had a heated argument with her partner about the ‘stealth’ lifestyle

Two boys Ly Sac and Nguyen Van Chan (both born in 1991) were paired with two girls Dao Thi Anh Thu (SN 1993) and Nguyen Thi Yen (SN 1992).

Sitting on the green chair is Ly Sac – a humorous person who claims to be “excellent in everything”. Excellent shared that this special name was given to him by his grandfather and his family has 9 siblings.

Currently Excellent is a construction engineer, the weak point is self-proclaimed sage. His desire is to find a girlfriend who is also gentle, caring, does not need to be special.

Ly Sac is considered very suitable for the girl Dao Thi Anh Thu from Phu Yen but currently working in Ho Chi Minh City.

Anh Thu is a translator, claiming to be very gentle, obedient, traditional and somewhat nostalgic. She likes to take care of her family, is introverted, thrifty, filial and a good listener.

Anh Thu is so “good” that he has never had a piece of love over his shoulder, nor has he ever held hands, hugged or kissed his boyfriend. She admits her weakness is that she rarely goes out, doesn’t know how to spend money, only spends money on her parents and studying.

“In my free time, I like spending time with my mother, watching cats, watching flowers, looking at ancient architectures, going to the beach, and immersing in nature.”

“My downside is a bit rigid, not very modern and few friends.”

However, Anh Thu said she is ready to have a boyfriend, maybe even get married this year.

“I don’t care about my appearance, but just look at how that person lives, how to treat me. I don’t like men who are violent, aggressive, do not know how to control their emotions “- she shared about her standards for finding a husband.

On the red seat is a young man named Nguyen Van Chan, currently living in Long An with his mother. He is a probationary office worker, because after graduating from university, he joined the army, then worked in the commune committee for a while. After that, he quit his job to help his family until now, he has returned to work.

Sharing about future plans, Mr. Chan revealed to MC Cat Tuong that in 2 years he will sell the inherited land to invest in buying houses for rent.

Commenting on himself, Mr. Chan said he considers himself an ordinary person, with nothing outstanding but also no significant weaknesses. “I like to joke around, live a normal life, spend a little, spend a lot, still have fun. For example, there was a time when I drove from Long An to Ca Mau just to take pictures and then ran back.”

Chan shared that he is feeling very comfortable and satisfied with his current life. “Every day, I go to work in the morning and go to the gym in the afternoon. If I have a girlfriend, I will go out to eat and drink, and on weekends, I can run down to play. My point is to live gently, slowly enjoy life.”

He wants to find a gentle woman, but the most important thing is how he feels about that person.

The person paired with Mr. Chan is a girl named Nguyen Thi Yen, from Binh Phuoc. Yen shared, she used to do many jobs, now she is the owner of a spa in Thu City, HCMC

Yen’s strength is adaptability, good cooking. Unlike the other 3, Yen had 4 relationships, but all the reasons for breaking up were related to the other’s ex-lover.

Her criteria when choosing a boyfriend is “as long as you know how to care, share and encourage, you don’t need to know much, if you don’t know, I will teach”. But she wants the man to have will, today to try a little harder than yesterday, not standing still.

When the curtains were opened to meet and share, the two couples had frank discussions and exchanges.

With the couple in the red seat, Mr. Chan and Ms. Yen showed quite different views on life.

Yen wondered at Mr. Chan’s satisfied way of life and asked the question “Can you try a little harder?”. According to her, when you have a piece of land, you should try to build a house and buy a car. If you have children tomorrow, you can’t let your children lose to their friends. Yen said that she was self-sufficient from an early age, so her spirit of overcoming difficulties was very high.

Meanwhile, Mr. Chan is still adamant that he doesn’t need much material, having a house to live in and a car to go is fine. “If you try to keep an eye on people and follow them, then life has no meaning.”

He further explained to the 2 MCs, “I want to live a life that is suitable for the money I have. I also try to work, but mainly for the environment. Now, when I say I can’t buy a car or a house, I can’t afford it.”

“I calculate that 1 province will have 8 girls like me and I’m looking for someone like me. I can’t believe I couldn’t find it.”

After the controversy, Mr. Chan also frankly shared that, if the two’s views are like that, unfortunately he is not the right person for Yen.

On the side of the green chair couple, Anh Thu initially came up with a “standard” dating plan for a traditional girl and had not yet had a love affair. She said she would arrange to go out with her boyfriend for about half an hour in the evening because she was still busy… studying. After being consulted by 2 MCs, she loosened the time a bit more, “coming back before 9 o’clock because I am not used to going out at night, I am afraid to come back late”.

Continuing to be “lashed out” by 2 MCs, Anh Thu said: “Then from Monday to Friday, I go out lightly, and on weekends it takes longer”.

Before the challenging questions of Anh Thu, Excellent were easily overcome. Before making the final decision, “After I get married, I still want to study for a master’s degree, can I help you with the housework?”. Or “I still send money to my parents every month, do you still feel uncomfortable about it later if you still do it?” – Thu asked.

With these concerns of hers, Excellent completely agreed on her eagerness to learn and her responsibility to her parents.

At the end of the program, as happened, only the blue chair couple, Anh Thu and Excellent, pressed the button to agree to date, giving each other the opportunity to learn more deeply. The other couple did not choose to press the button because of their different views on life.

Dang Duong