1. Talk less, ask a lot
Instead of always talking about a problem, great people are good at asking questions. One of the most important social skills you can develop is the ability to ask questions. Of course, this is not about interrogating someone but asking questions to open up opportunities to get to know the other person better, strengthening your relationship with them.
Everyone likes to talk about themselves, so ask memorable questions like “How did you feel when…?”; let them give their opinion like “What do you think…?”; or ask for suggestions like “I’m confused and really need your advice…?.
2. Celebrate other people’s victories
When someone shares good news with you, instead of quickly ignoring them or simply responding by sharing your own good news, congratulate them and wish them well.
3. Eye contact
Making eye contact with the person you are talking to is a sign of trust and connection. However, if someone doesn’t look you in the eye while speaking, before jumping to conclusions, think about whether it’s because of cultural differences or they feel threatened by you.
4. Show positive body language
By simply keeping your head up, shoulders straight, and chest outstretched, you can project confidence and leadership. Amy Cuddy says, “Your body language defines who you are.” How you present yourself can affect how you think and feel about yourself.
5. Pay attention to even the seemingly small things
Life is difficult and many people are faced with daily despair or without the support of family and friends. They try to keep it a secret, keep it a secret, and pretend everything is fine, without any help.
Be a more refined person who can read other people’s body language, behavior, and facial expressions. It will help you to have a deeper insight about people, about life.
6. Praise personal strength
One way you can help you bring out someone’s greatest strengths is by praising their strengths. How do you react when someone comes up to you and says, “I’m very impressed with… your abilities. I wish I could do the same.”
Praising others is a sign of your confidence and is a motivator to help build confidence.
7. Respect others in their absence
You can tell something about someone by what they say about someone else in their absence. If you know someone who talks badly about people behind their backs, chances are you are no exception, one of the people they talk to is bad. Be the type to respect other people even when they’re not around.
8. Listen
People will reveal a lot about themselves not only through what they say but also how they share it. Some people relate more easily when you speak loudly and quickly, while others prefer to communicate in a softer tone. It’s important to know who your “audience” is.
9. Smile more
Research shows that confident people smile more. Of course, this doesn’t mean that you should try to smile all the time, even at inopportune times.
If you’re in a good mood, don’t be afraid to show it off. When you smile, mirror neurons in other people’s brains are also activated, making it easier to smile back at you. Laughter is actually very contagious. People with good social skills are usually approachable and have a genuine smile.
10. Courtesy
We all like to interact and associate with polite people. Don’t overlook the little things our parents seem to teach us like saying thank you, apologizing or showing someone gratitude. They will help you go further.
11. Giving value
To be successful, to have a certain footing, you have to offer everyone something. Use what you know or do to benefit those around you, giving without thinking about the return. Share what you are good at with everyone and you will feel the full joy of giving.
12. Silence instead of arguing right and wrong
Sometimes people don’t need to hear your opinion. The next time you want to join a debate and prove your point, pause and ask yourself, “Do I want to have fun or do I have to be right?”
Right and wrong sometimes are not the most important things. By being silent and listening, you will better understand and feel life.
13. Focus on the positive
Negativity is always contagious and even spreads quickly. Don’t let yourself become a source of negative energy for your family, friends, and coworkers by constantly complaining and whining.
Instead, be someone who can see the positive side, the bright side when facing difficulties. Don’t confuse this with a lack of reality which means that you are someone who can deal with adversity and focus on what you can control.
14. Seeing everyone’s good points
Develop the skill to see the good in others. We often want to put other people down to make ourselves feel better. But be someone who can see a diamond roughly, especially when they can’t see it for themselves.
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