Husband is entwined with “rain sister”, wife has a headache to find ways to cope to keep her husband-Young friend

I trust my husband very much, but I don’t want it to happen that my husband and “rainy sister” go over the line.

This whole month, I have been losing sleep over the very close relationship between the “rain sister” and my husband. Two years ago, my husband helped guide a friend’s internship for a younger sister, who is in her final year of college. With the dedicated help of my husband, as a result, she graduated from the university with excellent honors.

My husband also has that friend continue to tutor and support his sister’s work. Respect to you, my husband has to dedicate himself to help. It should have stopped like that, over here I don’t understand why that girl and my husband treat each other like brothers, calling and texting each other all day. Not to mention, we often meet up for coffee, see football Again.

The two of them have a lot in common in thoughts and interests, so every time they meet, they talk about all sorts of things. Every time my sister comes over to my house to play, my husband is as happy as Tet, the two talk so much that they forget that I am sitting next to them. I really believe in my husband in my heart, but more and more I see the two cousins ​​as if they were in love.

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Every day, when I come home, I see my husband staring at the phone, sometimes laughing very happily… Turns out he’s texting with your sister. Occasionally, that sister even calls me: “Please allow me to go to coffee with us for fun. I want to go but I’m afraid of you, so can you lend us a little?” I happily let my husband go, he was very happy.

When I told this story to my close friends, they all stared at me in surprise. Someone even exclaimed: “What’s wrong with you, what if that girl steals her husband?”. Some even asserted: “Probably nothing innocent, it’s best to just be on guard. If they were to be together, the house would be ruined”…

Loving and getting married so far is enough time for me to understand him, a very decent, kind and helpful person. I don’t have any doubts about my husband at all, I myself often meet that sister, between them only revolves around work, music, movies, football…

But the words of my friends also need to be noted, I have also been more cautious and wary between their relationship. First, I set a rule with my husband, I don’t know when I go to work, but when I go home, I limit using my phone. In my free time, I play with my wife and children, teach my children to study, etc. In social relations, it is also necessary to have limits. , don’t go overboard… My husband happily agreed.

But then only a few meals, then my husband just mentioned “sister” all day, and still texted, called, and made an appointment to go to a cafe. Knowing I was not happy, my husband even begged me to come along. Honestly, I don’t have the heart to stop him, seeing him as a child, loving life when meeting young people, I am also very happy. But until now, that sister still doesn’t have a boyfriend, I am also afraid that the two of them will fall in love, or that she will fall in love because of my husband’s idol…

Looking for ways to limit her husband with “rainy sister” but failed. What should I do about the increasingly close relationship between the two brothers?

(Hoanglinh@…)