Looking at the box of food sent by her grandmother, her husband immediately declared “just be fair”.
Because he was so upset with the most important and most despised lifestyle, despise the grandmother of her husband, recently a young wife named Facebook VK went to the social network to share her story as follows.
K. said: “More than five years ago, my husband and I bought land to build a house, and our grandfather gave me half of the money, but my grandmother’s family didn’t give it to me, so since then, my husband kept saying that he couldn’t ask for help from his grandmother’s house. When in fact, My parents don’t have the same economic conditions as my father’s. I explained a lot but he still refused to sympathize with my wife’s parents. On the contrary, he showed a discriminatory attitude. Many times my husband said: ‘In Why are you enjoying it, if your parents don’t take care of their children, then don’t ask for anything, I have to be responsible for filial piety.
He even refrained from letting his wife and children go home. My wife’s family has a job, I have all the excuses to avoid it.”
The wife’s post
The wife confided that her husband’s selfishness and coldness towards her grandmother’s family made her stay awkward and also had to think a lot. On the one hand, he always asked his wife to take care of his family’s house, but he himself underestimated his wife’s parents, which made her extremely frustrated. Husband and wife many times quarreled and quarreled, but husband K. was conservative, his wife spoke heavily, and analyzed no matter how much she refused to put it in her ear. She grew tired of not being able to find common ground with her husband.
“More than a month ago, my parents sent me a box of food including chicken and duck, rice eggs, vegetables and melon. In the past, my husband still accepted from his grandparents happily, but after buying land and not getting money from his wife’s family, he spitefully forbade his wife from taking things from his grandparents. He said: ‘It’s a pity not to give a big amount, when you need it, you can’t help it, now it’s okay to give those little things. I forbid you to accept fame’.
So that day when I saw my wife carrying a box of goods sent by my grandmother, my husband immediately turned dark and yelled at his wife that he despised what he said. Then he took out his wallet to withdraw 3 million and threw it on the face of the box, shouting: ‘Once the goods have been sent, I will not force you to send them back, but I do not accept your parents’ money. It’s best if you take this money and send it back to them immediately, consider it as if I bought it, pay it fairly, and don’t mess around for fame’.
At that time, my husband’s attitude made me really unable to control it. But this time, I didn’t argue for the sake of getting tired, but I couldn’t solve the problem. Silently getting up, I went back to my room to fold my things, then picked up my child, dragged my suitcase, and went straight to the door saying: ‘If you liked being fair and not messing with my parents, then the only way is for us to end here. Because I am their birth, my child is their grandchild, this cannot be changed.
You have to understand that, as much as your parents love you, my parents will also love you. And my parents lovingly took care of their children in their own way, on the terms they had, with all the best they had.
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I myself don’t want to live with my husband, but just open my mouth to calculate and use money as a measure of parents’ love for their children. We have the same dream, divorce is the best.”
In one go, I took a taxi to take my son home and stay for a whole week, but my husband didn’t listen no matter how much I called. Understanding wife completely serious in divorce story, my husband was forced to go back to his hometown to find his wife to apologize. Since then, he gradually changed his mind and behavior towards his wife’s family.”
When a husband knows how to care for his grandmother’s family, any wife will wholeheartedly take care of her paternal side because of the fact that married life always requires fairness between both sides of the family. No matter which side the balance tilts, husband and wife conflicts will occur. I hope that those who step into the married life understand that to arrange their lives and have the right way to keep their families happy.
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