4 typical marital conflicts, leave each other early if no one changes

One thing is for sure, marriage sustainable only when there is efforts from both sides. When living together, any problem in life can lead to conflicts and quarrels.

Here are four issues that often cause conflict in marriage. Couples should look back to find ways to repair to preserve the family home:

1. Do not harmonize sex matters

Sex is the 70-80% decisive factor to maintain a fulfilling married life. Therefore, sexual incompatibility is considered the leading cause of marital conflict.

When one of them “has a problem”, the other will feel uncomfortable, even annoyed. Meanwhile, people with problems also fall into a state of sadness, low self-esteem, always avoiding closeness.

Therefore, both should have understanding and sympathy for each other. One side of the wife shows effort, trying for her husband, the husband also needs to have a positive response to expect the conflict to be resolved.

2. Finance

Among the causes of broken relationships, the leading cause is financial.

Some families argue because husband and wife cannot agree on how to spend, or sometimes they argue before deciding to spend money on something…

The conflict over money makes it even more stressful when the couple has difficulties in income, while there are too many things to spend.

So no matter what the family’s economy is, all necessary spending issues need to be discussed and discussed between the husband and wife.

3. Division of housework

Cooking, washing, cleaning the house, the husband’s side of the wife… are jobs that are prone to marital conflicts. In fact, in many families there is often a situation where one person will work harder than the other.

Therefore, they often feel that the things they do are not appreciated by their partners, so they become angry and compared. Therefore, both should establish a list of tasks and have the most reasonable division.

The fairness is not necessarily 50 – 50 but there is a balance to each person’s work and earning.

4. Raising children

The birth of a baby is upsetting life of many couples. From having to spend time caring, demanding more responsibilities as well as changing roles, emotions will lead to disagreements between husband and wife.

To avoid going to a dead end, the couple needs to calm down and determine that the birth of a member is a gift from God. Don’t stress too much when life revolves around babies.

It really has to be understood that the couple has a very special experience in parenting. Feel deeply about motherhood and understand your place in the family.

Ying Ying
According to Vietnamnet