Boyfriend bleeding for the first time doing sex is “virgin”

04/01/2022 07:32 GMT+7

Two young people who are students at a university in Ho Chi Minh City rushed to the male clinic because suddenly their boyfriend’s “boy” was bleeding again.

According to the boyfriend, the two had sex a few months ago and for the first time, the boyfriend noticed that he was bleeding in the penis. Thinking it was ‘losing their virginity’, they didn’t go to the doctor but also felt excited because of the unforgettable first memory.

The next times of cuddling, there were no accidents. Only recently when he was having sex, the male friend suddenly noticed blood and pain in his penis.

Even after stopping the love, blood still flows from the penis. Both quickly bandaged and quickly went to see the doctor.

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MSc. BS. Vo Duy Tam – Men’s Health Center, HCMC said, with the above case, the doctor had to surgically sew up the broken brake wire. Both of you had ‘a eyes, an o’ mouth, and told the doctor that the first time they were bleeding, it was considered ‘losing virginity’. The doctor consulted again, the first time it was a cut, then it healed on its own, and this time it was a real cut.

According to Dr. Tam, when he examined the male doctor, he also encountered many bad stories, bad jokes about bleeding when doing “sex” in men.

Until now, people often pay more attention to the virginity or called ‘thousand gold’ of women, but no one pays attention to the virginity of men. But seeing the phenomenon of bleeding for the first time in men makes many people find it strange and also think it is ‘losing virginity’.

Dr. Tam thinks that the ‘little boy’ that bleeds during sex is not a man who has lost his virginity, but it is a disease. Any man can have this problem.

Young people between the ages of 18 and 35 are more susceptible because young people are more sexually active, tend to be aggressive, and have little understanding of genital pathology.

When having sex for the first time, there is bleeding, a man should not think of losing his virginity but stay at home to heal himself. In fact, when the ‘penis’ bleeding isn’t the first or the nth time, it can happen at any time.

Dr. Tam has had a case where a man came to the clinic with a natural position, slowly considered it normal to ‘lose his virginity’, but there were also couples who came to the examination, both of them were pale because their boyfriends had bleeding in the chest. little boy.

Causes of bleeding in the genitals after sex:

First: Foreskin tear can be caused by pathology of the foreskin, semi-narrowing of the foreskin. Normally, the ‘small penis’ is weak, but when erect, it is more difficult to retract the foreskin because the foreskin is not wide enough, it will tear the skin and bleed. Abnormalities of the foreskin are usually congenital.

Second: Break the brake or brake wire of the penis located on the underside of the penis. If it is a brake, normal people have strong sexual movements, if the smoothness is not good, it can break the brake line and cause bleeding. Or because the brake line is short, it is possible that a normal relationship will also tear the brake wire. Traction cord disease is caused by a congenital abnormality.

Tuesday: Sexual activity is highly frictional, so there must be secretions to lubricate and reduce that friction. If the discharge is reduced, the woman is uncomfortable, or the man has pre-existing balanitis, the high friction will cause skin peeling and bleeding in the penis.

Balanitis can be caused by fungi or bacteria. Patients feel hot, red, painful swelling, so the skin is more vulnerable.

Some cases of secondary injury are that you broke the cord or torn the foreskin before, but it’s light enough to ignore. The skin has been torn, bleeding to form wounds, fibrous tissue, scar tissue reduces elasticity, not enough stretch to withstand movements during sex. In another sex, it continues to break and the next time is always heavier than the last time.

‘So, when a male friend has diseases in the foreskin, he should be careful when having sex. If the little boy is bleeding, he should go to the doctor instead of thinking it is normal, “said Dr. Tam.

Khanh Chi