Wife came home tired from work and was scolded by her husband “Useless”
It is a fact that many man will change personality after marriage. Before two people go home, they can set many ambitions and dreams. But when you see that your sacrifice for them is too great, this man can easily create a dependent mentality, no longer striving as resiliently as before. Wake up before it’s too late, or the marriage will be unbalanced. Like the story of H. below.
Wife came home tired from work and was scolded “useless” by her husband
H. and her husband both had stable jobs before get married. They also experienced an extremely happy love, as happy as so many others. Until she brought her boyfriend to debut, H. gradually realized that the man had changed a bit. The family of the H. family is better off, both parents have a lot of wealth and want to give it all to their children. H.’s husband at that time often asked her a question that made the woman quite shy: “My parents are so rich, I don’t know if they will leave me anything?”. Song H. thought he was just joking, so he played it off. The two continued their relationship and soon got married.
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H.’s husband’s family is not too well off, his parents are old and weak, so there are many things to worry about. On her husband H. has an elder brother. He is very responsible, so H. and his wife have less worries.
However, after 6 months of marriage, H.’s husband suddenly quit his job. When the wife asked, the husband only told “I’m tired of working, now it’s good to have money from my wife’s family to have business capital”. Immediately, H. objected to this. She thinks that the couple is young, can strive for a long time, there is no need to rely on adults. There was a conflict between the husband and wife. And then H. still went to work, and her husband stayed at home, showing stubbornness.
Once, H. came home from work, carrying a lot of things under his arm. In addition, the husband watched football and mocked his wife “Useless. I can’t do anything I can’t do if I beg my parents. With my situation like yours, I’d ask for a house instead of renting like this.”
Everything was beyond H’s tolerance. She stood up and gave her husband a slap because she was so angry. After that, she resolved to end the relationship, because she couldn’t make more sacrifices for an unbalanced marriage. Although suffering because she had only been married for 1 year, she had to separate, but H. believed she had made the correct choice. Now, no matter what advice the other man gives, it’s just pointless and a waste of time.
If you meet a man with these 3 bad qualities, women should stay away!
Lack of will to advance
An exemplary man will always want to strive, try to build a career. It is not necessary that he earns a lot of money to support his wife and children or get married. But he himself needs to be self-aware of building for himself a firm foothold, creating the basis and premise for other aspects of life. Without the will to advance, it will be very difficult for a man to rise up to grasp the glory for himself.
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Dependence on others
Of course, if we have difficulties, we can completely rely on the help of others, such as parents on both sides. But when you have never tried and asked for help, that idea is worth criticizing.
Mistreatment of women even though they have sacrificed so much for their families
Just because of selfishness and greed, the husband of H. in the above story changed too quickly. Really he does not deserve to receive love and respect from his wife. If someone only thinks about their own interests and forgets about how long the relationship takes to build, it shows that you do not need to stick with him for a long time. The road ahead is still long, let’s move forward strongly, look for new opportunities and be more worthy of us.
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