As one of the most successful young actresses in the North, her acting talent and sweet beauty helped Thu Quynh quickly win the hearts of the public. Emerging from her emotional role in Living Together with Mother-in-law, Thu Quynh’s name reached the pinnacle of her career thanks to the thorny image of the playboy girl My Soi in Quynh Doll. Successfully performing 7 impressive roles in just 5 years, her strength is increasingly confirmed, especially in the field of dramas.
Thu Quynh is growing more and more on her career path.
Not only being admired for her diverse transformations on the small screen, Thu Quynh’s strong and confident personality in real life also helps her become a role model for many people, especially female viewers. Step by step through the breakup and now find new happiness in the present, Thu Quynh accepted to participate in the talk show Exit on FPT Play to share her hidden feelings about her marriage. At the same time, her experiences of overcoming the post-divorce crisis will add a useful piece of advice for those who are still lost in that psychological maze.
Recalling her youth, she confided that she was once a girl who “loves banging her head against the wall, loves with all her heart, likes emotions without calculation”. Keeping her heart pure, Thu Quynh quickly got married after 4 months of meeting. However, married life has opened a new phase with Thu Quynh with many surprises, conflicts and lack of understanding.
She used to be the type of girl who loved wholeheartedly without thinking of herself.
“At that time, both of them lacked the experience and skills to handle all conflicts in their marriage. Another mistake was not listening and sharing with each other, everyone thought they were right and the other was wrong. Actually, I don’t have to give up, but I have to give the other party a chance as well as myself. I have to consider a lot. In addition, I have to think about my children and my parents, but in the end, I couldn’t stand it anymore, so I got a divorce.” , Thu Quynh confided.
Besides, actress Quynh doll revealed that the time when the couple broke up was when she gave birth to a child. The pressure of life plus the ingenuity in handling conflicts led to her and Chi Nhan “going their separate ways”.
She had to think a lot before coming to the divorce decision, especially when considering children. According to Thu Quynh, it is better to live alone and both are happy, then the children will also feel happy. It’s still better than trying to live together and letting children see their parents disagree.
She opened up after many years of living in secret to raise her children.
After the divorce, Thu Quynh always appeared with a smile and an optimistic attitude. But few people know that actress Quynh Doll once suffered from depression after a divorce. Although she spent a lot of time thinking and preparing mentally before giving up, she could not help but feel a sense of crisis. Sharing with MC Dinh Tien Dung, Thu Quynh did not hide the fact that she had to go to a psychologist and take medication for treatment.
“It seems that my story is mentioned on most forums. I feel somewhat comforted when people are on my side a lot, but there is still a part of netizens who are not. They make arguments. and conflicting opinions, it hurts me. When I just took a deep breath and exhaled to feel a new freedom, I had to face such a flow of public opinion. the question was very big and fell into a state of sudden lack of confidence.
I wonder if that decision was right or not and enough time to think about it. At that time, I believed that I was right, but why do people say that I am wrong, selfish, and don’t think about my parents?
The actress thought a lot about her divorce decision, at one point she wondered if she was right or wrong.
Talking about the difficulties, Thu Quynh also revealed the principles that helped her stay strong and recover. Instead of hiding, she chose to “plunge straight into the heart of the storm”, ready to accept any post-breakup impact. Thu Quynh also allows herself to be sad but only for a specific period of time.
The reason for her strict, sometimes extreme, emotional behavior is because she believes that “letting go is easy to make people immersed in a negative state”. Especially in the case of Thu Quynh’s “every three months, the old marriage is uprooted”, if I let myself slip, the distance from sadness to depression will be very short.
Although she successfully escaped the darkness of her old marriage and became a role model for many sisters, the most surprising thing in the talk show Exit was Thu Quynh’s confession: “I had time to deceive myself. that I’m strong.” But if it was, she wouldn’t regret her old decision. Thu Quynh firmly believed that at that time, convincing herself strongly was the necessary solution to help her move forward to live a happy life, for herself and for her children.
She had to lie to herself, trying to be strong to overcome the pain.
Now she is ready to let her son meet his father, and at the same time she is happy if her ex-husband has a new one. “If Be’s father has a lover or can love someone, I’ll be so happy. You have to relax because we have our own free lives and there’s no shortage of things that make life more meaningful. Bringing children back to their father and mother’s side. Meeting dad is very necessary because my child definitely has a father.
Many people are a bit negative, thinking that Be’s father is the one to blame for ending this marriage. Many opinions also said that when I was so young, I went back to see my father. But she said: “No, Be has a decent father and mother, I’m not pregnant myself”. The child’s right is to receive full love from parents and grandparents. Even parents do not have the right to take away their children’s right to happiness,” Thu Quynh said.
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