Women can be patient but don’t be patient
Love the Sunny Day Part 2 episode 14 is an episode with a lot of thrilling and interesting details. But we will not discuss “good sister-in-law”, “good mother-in-law”, but the most thoughtful thing is the very poignant statements of wives in marriage.
Drama about Khanh’s husband’s house is too much for viewers to bear. It goes from one surprise to another unpleasantness. Khanh is the embodiment and portrait of many real-life wives who are also confused in that mess.
Not only Khanh but also Lien or other women who are suffering from day to day, hour by hour just because they think “one thing to be patient is nine good things” should think again?
Women should not wait until the day they have to stop the husband’s car to realize that they have “lost capital”.
Lien – a colleague with Khanh who had a happy family in the eyes of outsiders, but then everything fell apart, her husband had an affair but the minor tam was Khanh’s sister-in-law.
In Love, Sunny Day, Part 2, episode 14 has a scene jealous quite familiar: Sister-in-law followed her husband and then rushed out to catch her, stop the car, entice, drag, and not care about her own safety. That scene of jealousy makes people think of too many jealous cases in recent times. The result is still bittersweet when the story in the house is talked about by the whole world, and the husband still follows you without regret.
After being betrayed, Lien said a sentence: “Why should I squeeze my mouth shut, fasting and wearing clothes so that my husband can bring money to the girl?” Women are like that, only when they sacrifice their best and receive betrayal do they realize the truth.
The mistake of wives is to silently build and nurture the home but forget to love themselves. They are so busy that they do not raise their heads and look at the other person to see if he is working for his family like me, if he knows how to appreciate the things he contributes.
Women should never push themselves into a “bankruptcy” situation, don’t think that getting married just needs to have a child. We have to love ourselves first and then use our reason to see if our husbands know how to nurture the family like we do. Don’t let all your efforts go in vain. And if you want to be happy and equal in a marriage, women should never make sacrifices.
After all, men are just an option!
When the truth was revealed, when deciding to put an end to the marriage, Lien affirmed: “In the end, men are just an option. If you don’t, you’ll be sad, but you can’t die. But the kind of man who is unfaithful and ungrateful is not worth being sad. Men can be without, but they can’t without sleep. No one loves me, I have to love myself more.”
How long does it take women to understand this? Or only when the man betrays you to find out?
Men in general can be sad, but men who have cheated on their wives and children will not even make you sad, they don’t deserve it. If from the beginning women identify men as just one of many choices in this life, you will lower your expectations and pour all your “capital” into him.
Women will not be happy if they consider getting married as finding a support. That’s why gradually you will live emotionally dependent on your husband, so that when that support goes away you will also lose direction. Everything in a relationship needs to be equal and balanced in order for it to develop evenly. Life gives you a lot of choices, so don’t lower your self-worth because of a bad man.
Women can be patient but don’t be patient
In Sunny Day Love, Part 2, episode 14, Trang advised her older sister to be patient and skillful in dealing with her husband’s family no matter how prejudiced they might be against her. But does Khanh’s patience bring the desired results?
In episode 15 Khanh asked her husband: “Is all my suffering, biting my teeth, biting my gums worth it? I’m just a human, not a god, so my endurance has a limit.”
Khanh has done very well the necessary stages of a bride: It is patience but still does not forget to look back at the results of her ring in the end, what does it bring?
Sometimes we want to back down because we think the other party will understand and back down but no, they continue to push forward, encroaching to the point of not leaving you a foothold. Then patience is now patience if you still stubbornly stand still.
The resistance of women is very necessary at this time. That doesn’t mean you jump into a fight with your mother-in-law, sister-in-law, or do other silly things. Let them see that they have surpassed your tolerance, that you want to build, have the will to build but they like to break.
In a case like this, perhaps the wife needs to have a frank conversation to avoid blame and blame. Do the right duties and responsibilities of a daughter-in-law, boldly once and say all your views, the frustrations you have to endure and your final choice if they do not yield. The important thing is to let the man you call your husband, yes or no, know that you’ve given your heart, you can’t be stupid alone on this road anymore. It is better not to have but to move on alone than to embrace the distortion to torment for life!
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