“Adopted father”, “adopted son” hunt each other online

After only a few calls, a few messages via social networks to exchange and agree on the level of support, many young girls immediately have “adoptive fathers” who are approximately the same age as their real fathers, many young men immediately have “adopted daughters” “the age of eighteen, twenty…

Can’t wait to have… baby

Most of the closed groups on Facebook specializing in connecting sugar babies with sugar daddy in Da Nang have just been established in 2020-2021. Each group has from a few hundred to several thousand members.

Claiming to be an employee who has been transferred from another place to this city by the company for a long-term job and needs a companion while away from home, I posted a post looking for a sugar baby with the criteria “Cute, gentle” , happy” with the agreed allowance. In the following days, the writer received a series of messages from the broker or from the “babys”. “My side has many babies available, the level of support depends on the beauty and the number of times we meet. Let’s meet face to face cafe, if it suits you, send me an introduction fee of 3 million dong. The monthly allowance can be sent twice, but the first time must be sent before bringing the baby into the hotel”, the broker with the nickname VB offered and set the conditions.

Photo of some “baby” from the broker.

VB asked “daddy” what does he work, how old is he, and how much is his ability to provide for the baby. Knowing that the father’s allowance offered is 8-10 million VND/month, VB sent portrait photos of some girls with information about their age, hometown, number of meetings per month and confirmed that these girls are all girls. “children of good families”, because of financial difficulties, they seek help. When daddy asked the baby to have a more eye-catching appearance, VB continued to send pictures of other girls with a request for support from 15-20 million VND/month, meeting 5-6 times a month. “You get what you pay for, you can afford to have a baby you like”, VB asserts. When I went to the cafe to meet a baby introduced by VB, I texted to complain that the real-life baby was not “sparkling” like in the picture so I didn’t want to “connect”, VB offered to send some money to the baby and promised to introduce. another girl.

BT brokerage, after sending a series of photos for customers to choose, also offered to transfer money to the broker first. When the customer was confused because he didn’t know who to choose, BT enthusiastically chose to help her look the most beautiful with information from the year of birth, height, weight, measurement of 3 rings and monthly allowance of 10 million VND. , meet twice a week, maybe overnight. The request about daddy is given as “clean, private, 1:1 relationship, not interfering in each other’s private life”. Another broker, RB, offers a brokerage fee of 1 million VND but requires a request. Daddy has to transfer money before meeting baby. RB sent daddy a picture of two young girls: “This is a baby born in 1996, his feet are very rural, he needs to provide 8-10 million, see each other 4-5 times a month. And this baby was born in 2022, only 20 years old. She wants to provide 10-12 million VND per month”. When I didn’t like it very much, RB texted back: “I’m all married, only those two left” and switched to offering to take the fast train” other girls with the price of 1.5 million VND each time. …

Not only asking fees from daddy, some brokers also ask baby to pay a commission when “connecting” is successful. Therefore, many babies also self-publish on private groups to find daddy and do not go through brokers. . Also from the information to find a baby, the reporter on a closed group, the two girls introduced themselves as N and K, born in 2001 and 2002, claiming to be a university student and used a virtual nick to contact their daddy. After a few messages exchanged, the two didn’t hesitate to send photos to “daddy to see his face. However, N asked his daddy to text me the location so that I could come by myself, and K gave the address of the motel room for his daddy to drive to the cafe to say.” stories and agreements about the relationship. When asked if he was embarrassed when his daddy was only a few years younger than his father, K smiled innocently: “It’s okay, you look so young. If you give me money every month, it’s fine.”

The trap awaits

Sugar baby and sugar daddy find each other as an exchange in a love-money relationship. In it, the sugar daddy spends a small amount of money but can “conquer” a young girl or an immature female student, “nail”. A sugar baby is cared for, can be pampered, has a monthly allowance to spend and can be given expensive gifts, trips, or “cool” places to go. “depending on how “genuine” daddy.

Some groups “promote” this relationship and think that this is a new dating trend, not only because of its practicality but also because it brings a lot of experiences for both. However, as many posts above In closed groups, it’s hard to find a good daddy, but fake and fraudulent daddy is abound.

“There was a daddy who posted a very high level of support, but when we met, the contract was for each coin. Many people offered to pay for each relationship, but I did not accept it, because it was like a cave. I also needed someone. to be a support, to share sorrows and joys, to help each other in life. But if it’s just for money, I’d rather accept being a girl to get more”, said H, 24 years old, selling online.

In groups, many daddys posted news that they needed to find a baby, first met at the hotel and paid 1 million dong, if they match and like each other, then they will provide each month according to the agreed rate. H and many babies think that these are fake daddy, just want to spend the smallest amount of money to “find strange things”, but do not want to learn and bond for a long time. “Every time I find my daddy, it also takes a few weeks, sometimes a month. So I want to last a little longer, at least a few months, but only meeting 1-2 times, it’s like getting used to crossing the street.” H added. However, some babies accept being paid “in installments” of 1-2 million dong and having sex with many daddys. And then, they become professional prostitutes all the time.

Some groups have posted common methods used by scammers to warn people. The most common way is to set up 2 virtual Facebook accounts, one pretending to be a broker, the other pretending to be daddy. First, the scammer uses a brokerage account to text the baby and ask for personal information, then pretends to have found a daddy for the baby and provides a virtual Zalo daddy account. In contrast, for daddy, the subject will give a virtual Zalo account pretending to be a baby. After a short time of talking back and forth to build trust, the broker asked the daddy or baby to transfer a deposit from 500,000 VND to several million to call the connection fee, and then directly block the baby. Some members mentioned “my own experience” so that daddy could distinguish between a baby and an “industry girl”. “Daddy just listen to me, you will find a good baby anyway” – a daddy said for sure.

Posting a Facebook photo of a young man who is believed to be a scammer to the group to warn, a member of the group said that this account has tricked a baby from Tam Ky to Da Nang to meet a real daddy and seduce the girl to transfer money. 2 million in advance. After transferring money as required, the girl’s Zalo account was blocked by both the broker and daddy.

Chat with a broker.

For sugar babies, being scammed for money is not as “spicy” as being cheated on for love. When asked why he was only 22 years old, why did he post to find his daddy over 40 years old, VA, – who introduced himself as a hotel receptionist but was unemployed – shared: Many teenagers are 20-25 years old. but also go online to find baby. These young people are mostly curious or crave strange things but have no money, just start a conversation and eventually want… free or cheat love only.

“Last November, I lost my job for a long time, and I didn’t even have to pay the rent, so I went online to find my daddy and met a scammer. This guy is 25 years old, he talks very much. Because we met for coffee 2 We’ve known each other for a while, so I’m shy and don’t ask for money first. After entering the hotel to meet, he said he forgot to bring money, promised to transfer money back and asked me to pay for the room. However, when I called back, it blocked, now I still remember, “M, a baby Another told an old story and made it clear that if he wanted to enter the hotel, he had to pay first.

On groups, sometimes there are posts that “exploit” such “dirty” guys. In a few times of meeting at a cafe or hotel, many babies have asked for their daddy’s main Facebook or Zalo and All pictures were taken intentionally. When daddy steals money, the real image will be posted on the internet to be traced and publicly humiliated.

The same thing happens when a certain baby, after receiving money from his daddy after the first meeting, then runs away. Recently, a daddy in Da Nang went up to a secret group to “unmask” a girl who asked for money excessively and had a bad attitude towards her daddy. Fortunately, this person did not name and publicize the image to leave a way for this baby and also to leave him a path…

Recently, especially in the “post-COVID” period, prostitution in the form of sugar baby – sugar daddy is becoming more and more popular in big cities. This form has been deformed, exploited, potentially dangerous, potentially generating prostitution and other legal violations such as rape, using sensitive images of sugar baby, sugar daddy to control property expropriation…

According to the People’s Public Security