Teach boys the menstrual cycle of girls
Turning “odd” things into cuteness
Menstrual cycle is sacred to every woman. However, this is also a sensitive matter that both boys and girls try to avoid and do not want to share. This causes the menstrual cycle to turn into something very, very weird, sometimes causing a lot of “bad jokes” situations.
Regarding women’s menstrual cycle, there are 1001 stories that happen in daily life. We are no longer strange to hear about a group of male students laughing when they saw a pink stain on the back of the teacher’s pants. It is for teachers, but for female classmates, many male students have teasing actions. They constantly whisper, discuss, even use inappropriate words. The girls didn’t know what to do but blush and blush.
Have parents ever considered educating boys about their daughter’s menstrual cycle as a matter of necessity? (Illustrated image)
Another story happened as follows: There was an office girl who was once in an embarrassing situation because of a boy’s less subtle words. It’s not like that girl went to a colleague’s house to play and then toured all the rooms. Arriving in the bedroom, the girl conveniently sat down and chatted with the owner about all sorts of things in the sky and in the pool. It didn’t matter until standing up, a bright pink stain appeared on the pure white bed sheet.
The 8-year-old son of a colleague coldly exclaimed: “You’ve got the sheets dirty! My dad said it’s very dirty.” Hearing that, the young girl was embarrassed, embarrassed, and didn’t know what to say except “sorry”. As for his mother, he could only say wryly: “You don’t pay attention to my words! It’s childish! I put it in the machine, it’s done in a flash, it’s okay!”. And they still talk, but in the atmosphere… strangely indescribable!
There is another story as follows: On a certain bus carrying a lot of students and students to school. The bus was crowded, everyone had to stand close to each other, everyone was tired. Suddenly, a female student appeared a large area of pink on the back of her pants without even realizing it. Seeing that, many people smiled and pointed comments.
From where a male student came, gently took off his jacket and gave it to his girlfriend with a warm sentence: “Take it and look behind you, you’ll need it.” The girl understood the problem, confused thanks. Everyone on the bus praised: “The boy must have been carefully raised by his parents! His parents are amazing!”.
PARENTS ACT NOW
From the story of the boy on the bus, why don’t each of us become “great” by teaching our boys how to behave before a woman’s period.
As for the girls, of course, in fact, we don’t need to declare to the world that we are coming to “strawberry season”. But it is the “strange” phenomenon that lasts for a while that unintentionally creates the feeling of “a girl needs to be quiet” when it comes to the menstrual cycle, even though this is a normal physiological phenomenon. And of course no one is to blame for this.
Parents should educate their sons about the basics of a girl’s menstrual cycle. From there, avoid unnecessary misunderstandings, as well as help boys understand and sympathize with women more. Here are the simple things that parents should educate their sons.
1. The simplest way to understand the menstrual cycle
We often hear a couple of similes: “Daughter – a dangerous creature that loses blood 7 days a month but still has the ability to revive and thrive after that.” The statement sounds quite humorous, but we cannot deny its correctness and practicality.
Parents, please share with your son about the problems girls face when their period comes. (Illustrated image)
2. More than just blood…
Menstrual bleeding is not caused by an injury to the girl’s body. It is a natural physiological phenomenon that occurs every month when a mature egg released from an ovary (a female reproductive organ) has not been successfully fertilized. The appearance of the menstrual cycle not only proves a woman’s ability to reproduce and maintain the breed, but also confirms that at the present time, the daughter is not pregnant.
It’s not just blood, the colored liquid that flows out every month is a collection of 3 different components: Debris of the uterine lining in the uterine lining is peeling off (accounting for about 64%) + blood in the muscle body (accounting for about 30%) + mucus secreted by the vagina (accounting for about 6%).
3. The story of menstrual pain when the month comes
No need to share, but just seeing on a beautiful day, a female student in the class asked to take a break from PE class, her appearance was exhausted, her face was pale, her hands were on her stomach, and she immediately guessed that “it’s gone”. The “variable” here is the menstrual pain that often appears when a girl comes to her menstrual cycle.
The cause of menstrual pain is mainly due to the female body automatically secreting the hormone Prostaglandin (PG) – a hormone responsible for sensing pain and inflammation.
When the uterine muscles contract to create a force to push the menstrual blood out, the Prostaglandins quickly make girls aware of the pain in the lower abdomen. The degree of dysmenorrhea can be dull abdominal pain, it can also be sudden, intense pain, fainting, etc., depending on the force of uterine contractions, the amount of PG secreted by the body and the location of the uterus. daughter.
So, if you guys really care about your mother or sisters or lover, you just need to do a small but meaningful thing to give them a hot pack. Ice packs not only help girls relieve menstrual pain but also contain many things in them. It is warm, delicate, considerate care. In addition, male friends should pay special attention to female friends in these days such as: Help carry heavy things, ask what female friends want to eat, drink, …
With many different small actions, boys show interest in girls during “strawberry season”!
4. It’s not that girls get mad because it’s coming months
Female characteristics are determined and maintained by two main types of female factors, the hormones estrogen and progesterone. Therefore, hormonal changes in the female body can affect a girl’s personality, emotions and thoughts.
However, the hormonal changes are most obvious and strongest at the time before and during the menstrual cycle (in women in general) and at the time of perimenopause and menopause (in middle-aged women about 35 – 10 years old). 50 years old).
Therefore, it is not possible to “blame” the angry, frustrated daughter because it is “strawberry season”. Sometimes a girl’s emotions and personality suddenly change, not for some distant reason, but because the boys accidentally do something “wrong” that makes girls angry.
5. Don’t make a girl’s sacredness something to tease
Parents should teach their sons never to have the intention of teasing, sarcasm, saying bad words, .. or doing any excessive actions when seeing their daughter’s tampon. Boys should not do anything too much when girls are coming to “strawberry season” if they don’t want to suffer the consequences.
Because what boys do can make girls feel embarrassed, ashamed, hurt; It can also make girls angry. And this can cause the friendship of both to end, irreparably. Therefore, it is necessary to have words and actions in moderation before the girl’s menstrual cycle.
Just a little time for parents to have a serious conversation with their son about their daughter’s menstrual cycle will help him become a warm-hearted, loving, caring, and well-mannered person. behave properly and be a genuine psychological boy.
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