The way two children sit on the train makes everyone whisper “definitely very well educated”
April 27, 2022 07:40 GMT+7
Just by looking at the sitting posture of the two babies, everyone knows that these are very obedient and reasonable children.
From a child’s words and behavior, we can see how a family’s upbringing is. Especially in public places, from a young age children can obey the rules, polite words or thoughtful actions show more clearly the influence of parents on the education of children at home.
Recently, a story has been shared on social networks, attracting the attention of parents. Specifically, when the subway arrived at the station, a pair of sisters came up, the boy was holding a guitar in his hand. When they first got on the bus, there weren’t many customers, so the two sisters found an empty seat and sat down, at this time there was no one around, so the boy temporarily kept the guitar there.
Initially, the guitar was placed next to the boy.
When she saw many passengers boarding the train, the girl took the initiative to hug her body, and at the same time told her brother to sit close to make room for others.
The actions of the two sisters surprised many people.
After a few stops, the closer to the city center, the more people got on the bus. At this time, the little girl said a few words to her sister and immediately hugged her guitar. The younger brother quickly sat next to her, leaving a space beside her for the other guests. This action made everyone scoffed because even though they were young, the children knew how to think for others and were certainly well educated by their families.
What qualities does a good child usually have?
1. Courtesy
When we first meet other people, most of the first impressions we make is whether they are polite or not. Children who know how to behave well will pay attention to words and actions, moreover, if they know how to actively say “thank you”, it will be easier to make people feel better. When you make a mistake, apologize, when you need help, gently ask… These are all necessary rules of conduct that children should learn from an early age.
2. Willingness to think from someone else’s point of view
In general, a savvy child is able to see matters from the other person’s point of view, rather than selfishly thinking only of personal gain. For example, your child might say something like, “I see you’re tired, so I’ll help you,” or “If you’re eating like that, it would be difficult, let me get you a spoon instead of chopsticks.” .. These children are often very observant and attentive, and are also carefully trained by their parents.
So how should parents properly educate their children?
1. Pay attention to your words and actions
Children are very good at imitating, and parents are the people they come into contact with every day, so their behavior will be imitated by their children. Not only actions, words of adults are also very important. Be an example for your child in all situations and circumstances. For example, a father who does not follow traffic rules is very difficult to teach his children to do so… Or a mother who scolds and mocks others can’t expect her children to know love…
2. Correct children’s mistakes in time
When children are a little older, parents should teach them to distinguish right from wrong in a timely manner, so that they become fair and upright people. When children make mistakes, parents need to help them find out what they have done and gradually correct them. If you just ignore it and think that “you are still young”, you will definitely regret it later. Every time you are advised by your parents, your child will remember, after each re-offending, you can give appropriate methods for your child’s attention for the next time.
According to Nhipsongviet.toquoc.vn
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