Fear of being forced to marry by my father

I am 33 years old, have been through a beautiful period of love and also full of hurt and disappointment. Loved each other for seven years, broke up for seven years, but I don’t want to open up to anyone yet. It’s not that I haven’t forgotten my ex, but I’m spending time nurturing my soul as well as realizing my ambitions. Sometimes, when I walk in the middle of life’s difficulties, I wish I had someone beside me to share, keep me company and grow old with me. Those thoughts come and go.

Whatever happens, on the occasion of the holiday when I return to my hometown to visit my family, they both urge me to get married and introduce me to someone. She said that looking at the two of them, the uncle said that he had a house, took it back to work and eat, and she thought that he had a good personality and was lucky to meet him. I wonder if 33 years old is a ticking time bomb in the house? Why do I feel so heartbroken, no one asked me if I was ready to get married.

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Everyone is looking for a happier and happier life after marriage, not having a family to keep up with friends of the same age. I hope to find a loving half, who can be in tune with mind and personality, so that I can continue to be myself and the other side too. My father is very patriarchal and domineering, I worry about myself, afraid that one step he will let me get on the flower car. Knowing that my loving family wants me to have a place to stay, but if I obey my parents, will my life be happier? Please give me some advice. Sincere thanks.

Fate

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