Only when there is a need does my husband ‘mon men’ near me

I am 30 years old, my husband is 33 years old, have been married for five years, have a three-year-old child. Life to me is basic, nothing interesting. In the morning my husband goes to work early, I take my children to school and then go to work. In the afternoon, I come home early to pick up my children, take care of them, cook dinner, take a shower, and clean (if desired). My wife and I only talked and shared at dinner time for about half an hour to an hour. After that, my husband held the phone, computer or sometimes looked after the children while I showered and washed. Sometimes I ask my husband to wash the dishes and put the clothes in the machine, he still does it.

From 9pm onwards, I play with him and put him to sleep. Husband in another room uses the computer, maybe playing games, working, he said. At first, I urged him to go to bed early before 11pm, mostly because of his health, a very small part because he had a need. He didn’t listen. There were five times a week when he slept right in that room, I woke up at night not to see my husband was also depressed and sad. Gradually, I didn’t care when and where my husband slept.

>> I don’t like sex

Only when he has a need will he listen to me, the night is near me. For the most part, I indulged him even though it was uncomfortable at times. It is very difficult for me to feel emotions because of the dominant reason, because of the frustrations in life, not to find the sharing, care, pampering, romance… from my husband; then worry about family, children, food, money… I’m afraid to be close to my husband for a small part because I’m afraid of breaking the plan. After giving birth to my first child, I was stressed, often irritable and difficult, sometimes thinking about foolish things. Now I am very afraid of the feeling of taking care of two children alone. To me, my husband is like a big baby. Sometimes just because of my husband’s bad smell makes me completely lose inspiration. He was physiologically weak, narrow foreskin, so I was also disappointed.

For me, sex is just a small matter, family and children are important. When we are close, both husband and wife are uncomfortable, I also love him. My husband and I only get together once a month, even once every two or three months. Is there ever a time that we get bored of each other because of sex?

>> Not satisfied with sex with husband

I bought many supplements to improve my physiology, but then found that reason controlled emotions and desires. Only when I am happy and comfortable, my husband knows how to care, share everything, and be romantic, can I really have feelings of love. Moreover, a very important thing in the marriage is the cleanliness of the companion. Bad smell, body odor greatly affects the fun. Perhaps my husband knows but does not take the initiative to do this. When I complained, he just took care of his personal hygiene, when I came back, I had already lost 50% of my emotions. What should I do to improve this situation?

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