Divorce just because the husband eats and drinks, will it be disadvantageous for the children?

At home, he was still small and affectionate with his wife and children, but I was fed up with my husband’s drinking and drunkenness. At home, he is very lazy, holds his phone all the time, and teaches his children to watch TV and computer so that he can be free. He has never thought of making money to buy a house and take care of his children to have a full life.

I am a bank employee, 30 years old, monthly salary 12-15 million dong. I tried everything to make him drink less, but it didn’t work. In 2020, I filed for divorce but then I didn’t come to solve it, I am not brave enough to be a single mother. I used to think that just ignore it and live happily, husband and wife rarely talk, everyone does their own thing. My husband took the children to school and worked at seven o’clock in the morning, and didn’t come back until 11 at night when my mother and I slept.

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Now I no longer want to keep my family. Is there anything that divorces just because my husband drinks, only to free myself, but with my children, is it too much for me to do so? My son loves his father very much, even though he is late, but when he wakes up to see his father next to him, he is very happy, lying on his father to sleep. Mother and daughter go on a trip or go somewhere far away from their father, and at night, when they wake up, they will cry. Whatever I eat and drink, I leave it to my father. Where are we going now, the first question I ask: “Are you coming with me”?

I know how to take care of my family and children, beautiful appearance. I used to sit down with my husband, asking why he drank so often, do I need to change anything? He said it was the nature of the job. I drafted a divorce agreement, saying that if you are still drinking, we have nothing to talk about. He was just silent, stayed at home for two or three days and then he was the same again.

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